I'm bored with life

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BeelzeBubble

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i'm bored of life in general, i have a goal and i am steadily making my way there but so what thats just a job and family and yeah thats great and all and yeah there lots of exciting things in life to do like travelling learning a different language and stuff but tbh wheni think of this stuff i feel a boredom very deep inside me not like any other when your alone on the weekend and there no internet but i fell like my self and my very being is slipping away from reality litttle by little and theres nothing i can do about it theres times when i think about killing myself but i'm not depressed or anything i'm quite happy with life it's going well i just feel so empty like what is the reason i am here rn there is no point to it and i don't have the motivation to continue but it's not like i will kill myself i'm too much of a pussy to do that so where doe's that leave me just wading through this life which whould otherwise be enjoyable to only get somewhere i want to be that sounds nice but why do i need to be there why does people have to work or play or eat or sleep or live or even dioe what is the point i seriously just can't be bothered i'm too lazy to be someone but too lazy to give up so what do i do?

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    1. Recouer Aug 29, 2017
      You can blame whoever made this shitty universe for giving us no f**king purpose in life XD

      On a more serious note, as i experienced this phase more than once, i overcame it with finding something of my own, like playing/working and persevere in doing it, and if you keep/start wondering about this, it just means that you don't consider your own what you are doing and thus, you cannot relate anymore to your own life.
      And it can lead to apathy and/or depression, at least, it did for me.

      Thus, find something that you truly like and are passionate about and even though your life hold no meaning and you could die tomorrow noone would give a shit, you'd still be healthy as you are still able to relate to your own person. (Keeping in touch with friends helps too)

      On a side note, this feeling of apathy may be caused by a drop in endorphin secretion as when we are older, we produce less endorphin than your younger self.
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    2. sharlnina Aug 29, 2017
      In the past, I had a feeling like that too. I didn't feel happy nor sad. It's just I felt empty inside. After finding out I felt empty, I remember that I asked myself on why was I feeling that way. How can I change this feeling? Should I do the usual like go to the malls, read mangas, talk with friends? But it's like I don't have the motivation on doing anything. I want to lay down everyday. I don't want to study. Fuck study. I kept thinking what's the sense of this, we all die in the end.

      I forgot the exact reason on how I overcame it, I just tried doing anything that took my time and of course, I'm so lucky to have a reliable friend who I can talk with.

      Ironically, some of my friends and my officemate (different time and date though they are only 4) brought up this 'empty phase' while talking with me... I was like I experienced that too how did you overcome that phase? So Bubble you're gonna be like that too. You'll overcome that phase. If we can do it, you too can do it. :)
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    3. EROgeX Aug 28, 2017
      Its okay to be bored in life

      After all our existence in the universe holds no meaning


      However you are alive,

      That in itself is a great thing


      Rather than contemplating how bowing life is


      Find something to do and try it out

      No matter how small it is

      Even if you ever get bored of it

      There are more things for you to try out.

      You will find things that you would enjoy, hurt you, gives you please and many other else.

      Those things is what makes life worthwhile.
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    4. 1amdude Aug 27, 2017
      travel to a new place. exploration usually helps.
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    5. CloudySkySadMoon Aug 27, 2017
      May you find that spark you need.
      [My spark is definitely money >.> Preferably earned by me by myself. I wanna graduate soon...]
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    6. SoShy Aug 27, 2017
      I'm glad if my words were able to reach you. Wish you good luck!
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    7. BeelzeBubble Aug 27, 2017
      @SakuraHana thank you so much that actually helps alot :)
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    8. SoShy Aug 27, 2017
      Find something that makes you happy, sincerely happy. Even if you magane find a one single spark to guide your way through, it'll surely multiply as you go on your way. I'm not sure how you could find that happiness, that's something you have to find out for yourself. But don't give up hope easily. Life is too rare and precious to waste on a wrong lapse of a decision. I don't know the meaning of life myself but if I were to explain, it'll be long and boring Buddhist talk. Lol.
      I just know that you don't really need a reason to be happy. :blobsmilehappyeyes:
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