Tsk, there are some you could do in bed too you know? Think of your future, whether you want to marry a good looking rich smart guy or an ugly poor peasant!
Yup but either way being good looking will get you to interact with more people and better ones too. When you look horrible on another hand, I'm afraid to say that it's very hard to find someone decent...
Yeah the most socially attractive people are also surrounded by the worst people and thus usually corrupted. That's why you can, for example, pinpoint certain kind of physical appearance to a social group.
Pretty appearance depends on you anyway, for me all those bitchy people aren't pretty. Usually the ones I consider pretty are not considered so by others... But for me they're the prettiest, still.
And if you do that you won't be meeting much people, thus you'd have a hard time finding someone else who satisfies you. Even if you do find it, you also need to go further than just watching from the sides, it has to be mutual after all.
And I believe a lot of people end up with other people who are socially similar instead. Why, because they could not reach out to other people and find someone else, so they get attracted to each other.
In fact not just because of some criteria, almost nobody really finds themselves someone fitting. This can be attested by the high level of divorce that comes out of it, and by generally observing couples.
And yeah don't rush to avoid such a situation, and what's more be open with other, communicate a lot, and even more so be sure the other side is also open!
They rush as fuck before even knowing each other properly and seeing how living together would work. This is why there are lots of divorces.
Also because prioritizing money and looks first and when they know that person it's poof let's divorce or dump each other.
I understand the reason but the accent put on them is way higher than it should be
Meh you can remove money and looks cuz just about everybody does that and at any age, way before getting married too. It's also what makes meeting someone a bit more complicated since everybody is into instant relationships.
It ain't about fitting criteria, just that not fitting some criteria makes things hard... For example wanting serious relationships when other people don't.
`-` heck if they know nowadays each other properly, how can they even see if they fit the criteria.
I am taking as a general statement but sadly it's too common.
Real friends would just rub it hard and tease you where it hurts. By the end of the day you either hit them or cuss at them and next day you're back at it again
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