Discussion Help my oblivious friend

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by ZhaWarudo, Jul 27, 2017.

  1. SerialBeggar

    SerialBeggar Hate your family? Got no friends? Gimme your stuff

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    I think the problem is your friend "Rose", she sounds like, as they used to say, a loose girl. "Chet" brought up the topic of her break up was due to her cheating, and in you description of their chat, she didn't deny it. Chet is apparently ok with this confirmation because he continued to appeal for a meet up. Most likely he just wants a casual friends-with-benefits relationship and since she doesn't rebuff him immediately, she led him on that she is somewhat agreeable to this. While Chet may have been aiming for an easy score, there is still the fact that as soon as Rose became available again, the word heard on the grapevine gave the impression that even an old acquaintance out of the blue had a chance.
     
  2. syc

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    What if he misunderstand and thinks she works in a maid cafe? Do they provide such services there?
     
  3. Cupcake Ninja

    Cupcake Ninja [Kind Sage][Lord Benevolence][ The Great Paragon]

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    you know it occurs to me...why bot tell him to fuck off? No need to be nice to the guy, politeness isn't an obligation. I mean really what's the reason you shouldn't anyway? Even if you are of the same social circle, doesn't mean you have to talk to him or be nice to him. People should be more blunt, not worry about small things like this.
     
  4. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    Because girls are "polite", I said so myself, say to him no way, he will appreciate it but no...
     
  5. Yukkuri Oniisan

    Yukkuri Oniisan 『Procrastinator Archwizard Translator and Writer』

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    I don't think there is a maid cafe outside japan...

    Type Maid Cafe Indonesia in Google... wait? what? It seems I'm wrong... Damn... I should have visited when going to Jakarta.........

    If they are not "polite" then their "value" will come down... I think.
     
  6. 1amdude

    1amdude Nakamatu Agraulek

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    let her decide.tell her that you have her back and your thought about it.be a good support.if she fell for him, that her choice.
     
  7. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    I don't even... just read properly next time.
     
  8. asriu

    asriu fu~ fu~ fu~

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    mumble mumble.png it been years~ if I remember it correctly only once a month?
     
  9. Amaruna Myu

    Amaruna Myu ugly squid dokja (●´∀`●)

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    They'll confiscate my phone and there goes my lifeline...
     
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  10. 1amdude

    1amdude Nakamatu Agraulek

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    OK.let me rephrase.
    tell her what your thought about this.
    example:I think this guy just wanna have sex.i don't want you to make a mistake that can't be fixed.

    then let her choose.If she still going to do it,let her .back her up.if anything happen, be prepared to to take some measure.
    if she not gonna do it, just refuse and block the no.tell the guy properly that she don't want her boyfriend to misunderstand.

    are you guys young or something? bad experiences always taught people to be wary.this can be a lesson for her to grow up.
     
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  11. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    Let me rephrase, she already knows that we all think this guy wants a date,
    she thinks he is an idiot and annoying so why the heck would she fall for him, it's not my biz telling her what to or not to do. This is all in the first post, that's why I said read properly.
     
  12. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    Only as an event maybe 2 times a year unfortunately.
     
  13. 1amdude

    1amdude Nakamatu Agraulek

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    my mistake.the title is misleading.I thought the problem are an oblivious girl cannot refuse a date or something.

    tell her boyfriend! It should be fun to watch.let the boyfriend message the guy using her phone.

    edit:don't forget to share the stories
     
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  14. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    Oh he was there, it's amusing to him.
     
  15. 1amdude

    1amdude Nakamatu Agraulek

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    tell him she want to see him now.told him to come to the bar.
     
  16. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    Maybe she is loose but not in the way you think, the reason she cheated her ex is because he was a pothead lol player who neglected her for that cancer game. Her break up was over a year ago, this dude just got his break up and is desperate, not that he finds her easy, hell he doesn't even know her well, just that he was friends with that pothead.
     
  17. Cupcake Ninja

    Cupcake Ninja [Kind Sage][Lord Benevolence][ The Great Paragon]

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    bah, that aint always tru fam, in fact i find that's true only forty percent of the time if that. People seem so afraid to just directly tell someone off and instead do the worse thing by choosing to play mind games. Thats how shit starts. Ah, but aint my life, you guys do you. It'd prolly be more entertaining anyway. So, that aside, find any good suggestions yet? Something inspired? Do tell...
     
  18. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    Not really, the only real advice was to bring bf or friends with her, she didn't say yet what will it be. The other advice was futa training, pissing on him, to explode and take a pic as a french maid with bf.
     
  19. Cupcake Ninja

    Cupcake Ninja [Kind Sage][Lord Benevolence][ The Great Paragon]

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    hmm...the futa training sounds promising. Maybe you should....? You know....heh.
     
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