Hello fellow daoist, Doing this from my phone so sorry about any spelling errors. So it all started more than a month ago when I went to the beach with some people. There I met a woman and we talked a lot trough the weekend and we agreed to meet in the future. The problem is that after I came back I completely forgot about our interactions and plans. So more than a month went by and today she contacted me saying that she is leaving the country next month and wants to do something together. We agreed to go eat next week, but I am really lost about this situation. I think it's clear that I am not great with people, so I would really appreciate if you could help me. I thank you all in advance.
You 'met' once ? And she inviting you saying , she leaving the country ? Alone or with a group ? And lol ?
If you're pursuing her, don't know how to get out of the situation. If not, just go with it and have a good time. Nothing bad about it.
Hmm, well I guess Spoiler You were expecting advice, but it was me, Dio! Spoiler Honestly though, why are you so worked up about this? Do you like the woman? Do you actually not want to meet up with that person in the first place? If the former then stop worrying about it and just be yourself and enjoy the experience. If the latter then just be straight with her?
Need more info How old are you ? How old is she ? What country are you in and where is she going ? Do you love her? How did you meet ? Does she love you ?
Yes we only saw each other once but it was a full weekend. About how many people will be there I can't be sure but I got the impression it would be just us (the day was set without consulting anyone else )
I am 20 She is older but not much(like 3 years older ). The country is not that far(same continent) About love... I can't say anything because we don't have a deep relation and I am not even sure if she has any intent of having one. Actually I guess my problem is because I don't even know if I want one. We met because we were in the bus together for like 4 hours and we talked the whole time
Perhaps buy some small farewell gift? Larger if you like her. But you only met once during a full weekend, and she invites you out for a farewell meeting. Either she is impressed by you, like you, or is just a very kind person. Is she Japanese? Seem like their culture to remember every little thing and leave with the best detail and impression.
Opportunities/fate can be weird. Even a small interaction with someone can have a big influence on your life. In the end, it's up to you. Though I don't see how making more connections can be a bad thing.
She's not Japanese, but thanks for the advice. I am probably over thinking this situation but I will probably just do that
Yeah, honestly there isn't much we can do from here. If she is acting like she wants more, a farewell "gift" if you will, take it no harm in it you won't see her again. If she's being nice act like a friend and say goodbye. Which situation it is you will have to find out yourself.
Just go and have fun, if anything should happen, go with the thought she is leaving the country and won't be meeting again. P.S. if you really want to keep seeing her again, try knocking her up.