Discussion How does it feel for a man when he gets cuckolded despite not doing anything wrong?

I have never been in a relationship, but I read a lot of adult novels and webtoons, and I feel sick to my stomach when the female lead cheats on the MC despite him not doing anything wrong to her and I feel much worse when she gives in to her biological urges and says it was a mistake. But strangely, when the MC is cheating on the woman although I feel disgusted but not as much as when the woman does it to him that's probably I have been able to read many 'harem' tagged novels, am I a 'sexist' or is it because I'm a man? Anyways, I mean why is 'Netorare' so difficult to digest? Why do webtoon authors seem so into 'Netorare'?

 

you went there buddy..you used the n-word!!

 

It'd be a euphoric moment for me.

 

I love netorare, I have no attachment/relationship with those characters so why should anyone feel bad when you see them betraying one another? Watching their explosion of emotions is just wonderful to me like fireworks.

 

Because you are a guy the disgust you excess disgust you feel for he girl is just fear. The disgust you feel for he gut is just jealousy

 

I want to know y I'm affected by it though? That's one of the purpose of this thread

 

Oh sorry then.

 

Euphoric? Man I'm reading about it n I'm not able to take it n I'm wondering how I'll b able to take it if it ever happens to me, n you r saying u wud feel 'Euphoric'? Do u really mean it?

 

It feels like "fuck that bitch" the song.

Noone should feel like they need to live up to anyone's standards. And in that situation, its called cheating. You're a cuck if you know she's cheating and you do nothing about it. An't nobody 'stolen' in real life we make those decisions with out own power

NTR is fantasy, Netori is reality

 

I beat her, and thanks to man. Cuz he has shown me that bitch she is.

 

I experienced it in my life already.

 

There are usually several possible reasons as to why the cuckolding occurs, although some of the more common ones are :

1. The partner cheated on them previously
2. They don't have enough sex
3. They don't have enough sex that pleasures both of them
4. Workaholic one of them, the other is home alone and bored out of their mind
5. Revenge-cuckold, one of them angered the other at some time, and they feel like cheating on them is good revenge
6. Open relationship, one of them sleeps around, the other is allowed to sleep around

and so on.

 

Probably b/c you're normal and the authors are complete fuckin psychos

 

Do you feel the same way for reverse harems as you do regular harem?
It wouldn't be sexist if you feel the same for both.

 

sexist? dunno not remember what it mean as for why you think less disgust if male MC cheating perhaps
cuz some culture think it's okay if man can sleep with many women even if it's cheating he may even called stud~ while if woman cheat she can called as slut

 

In a primitive state, having multiple women is a sign of strength, prowess, etc. While if a women makes you a cuckold that implies you are weak/worthless/cannot satisfy your woman and thus she abandons you for a stronger, better, mate. This implication makes you feel bad, and most netorare authors focus on this inability or lack of strength. Most people subconsciously self-insert as the protagonist, thus when he gets cucked, you experience a similar feeling. Webtoon authors (mainly Korean) love netorare, not because of any specific fetish, but because of drama. Adultery is a very prominent theme among Korean drama's and other media, it is also a very quick and easy plot device.

 

It's because you were subconsciously self-inserting yourself into the MC.

 

The male penis is structured how it is to scoop out semen from competing males ejaculations into a female, as it goes in and out.

It is a common reaction to get turned on in such a situation, as your primitive part of the brain is telling you to stick ur penis into the girl and scrape out the semen the other guy ejaculated into her, and then ejaculate your own semen into her to ensure the resulting offspring is yours - especially if you like the girl in the first place and would like her to bear your children.

Historically this reaction has probably prevented a lot of females from bearing offspring of others - for example, a male fks the female after encountering such a situation - and hence why this behavioral reaction remains in modern males.

 

Sad truth; I'm going to offend a lot of people by saying this :
A male can impregnate many female at the same time, but a female can only get impregnated by one male.

 

I haven't read reverse harems. But I have watched shows like 'La Corda D'oro Primo Passo' I didn't feel sick it was all right.