Discussion How to get a lovers.

Yes that's it! I meant it. I seriously don't know how to get a lovers(GF). Look, from childhood, i always spent my times alone playing something that kids at my age didn't play it. So because of that, every child from my neighbourhood's said that i'm weird, and tell others kid to don't play with me because i weird.

Even at the school, i always alone and all of my classmates was like "who are you?"

Because of that, i didn't have many friends until now (age 18), and didn't know how to get a gf. Fu*k it!! How can my big brother always got another woman a few weeks after he broke up with his last gf. I seriously didn't know how to do that.

Ps. I always shy, anti-social, and rarely talk with people.
Please kindly tell me.

 

summon riajuu at fullest!
@prongsjiisan @Ai chan
first step!
go talk to other to build your confidence

 

Stop being shy and anti-social(Looks who's saying this!) and talk to people more often...

 

You know yourself what you need to change.

 

I undestand you!!!

 

abduction?

 

I am 18. Never had a gf. Probably never will. Have the same problem as you. We both might die alone. No big deal.

 

Guys who get girls only get more girls.
Guys who don't get girls, don't get girls.

Lots is attitude. Be open, inviting, confident, fun loving, active, competative, and youll get more girls.
Girls don't want to date a guy they will feel guilty when and if they break up with him, use him(Dinners/drinks/entertainment) because he will be heart broken. They want to date a guy and have fun. They aren't looking to settle down yet. They want to experience life and all it has to offer, not spend it locked in a room with a looser who only watches anime and plays video games.

 

Be like school days and eventually meet your demise

 

Get friends first.. then a gf, chuck yourself into social circles.

 

There's no use in telling you any "way" to do it if you're not gonna do anything. A person that has spent so many years in idleness won't change by some stranger's word (if it can even be called that) in a random internet forum.

 

more confident with yourself? it seems girl more prefer confident men.

 

proper english would help. speaking like you are consumed by your ching chong novels and using those terms will make people think you are an idiot.

 

Maybe, before lovers, get RL friends and buddies?

Before getting someone to like you, you must like them first. You yourself must learn how to love yourself.

 

GO PLAY DUNGEONS AND DRAGONS it'll help a ton.
Do something new. Talk more. Use that shyness as a weapon to befriend people.
If you can't do that, you might as well study a shit ton and get a well paying job and walla. You have better chances.
Find a hobby you like and can do with others.
Stop feeling bad for yourself and envying others. The emotions can show when you speak.
That's all ~ BEAR OUT!

 

first question why you want one and if you really do want one. there a lot of people in the world chasing things they think they want/need, but end up just wasting their time.

 

Dude it's a BIG DEAL. Are you want to die Virgin?

from what i see, it's seems like girl like dangerous guys.

it's really hard for me to do that. Because if i can, maybe by now i already have gf and some ex-gf

 

Try to just focus in 1 girl... Having a lot of girls you liked and somehow after the both of you breaks up you will find another fast is a bad thing for me... So just try to focus in 1 girl and protect that relationship...

 

If you make more friends you probably will eventually meet someone you share chemistry with. Just remember be genuine, don't enter into a friendship with ulterior motives. Going down that route you'll be surprised how fast you can transform from friend, to creep.

 

You only 18 bruh.. ...you got a whole freaking life ahead. Screw love for the time being.