I feel awful. My first thought after reading the title wasn't a TV series but a certain restaurant I went to a few months ago.
idk what you classify as "girly" but i am guessing you mean too much romance Battle of Changsha (haven't seen it but heard great things) Love Me If You Dare (lots of romance, but great mystery/crime) The Disguiser The Vigilantes in Masks
When a snail falls in love is amazing. It's similar to love me if you dare (same author, same universe, similar themes). The adaptation of the main events was pretty spot on in comparison to the novel.
These are 2 amazing romance Chinese dramas: 1. Love O2O A slight smile is very alluring(more modern with virtual reality gaming and campus life) 2. 10 Miles of peach blossoms aka Eternal Love (this one has fantasy with cultivation)