Life turning point and desperate situation

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Hii friends, this is my first time to create a blog .
I just wanted some suggestions from my fellow friends through online. it's just that I'm totally in a desperate situation in my life as of now. I don't know what I am supposed to do as I reached 18 this year, well most people feel funny as what am I about say but still i wanted to share it

I discontinued my studies for 1 yr in search of my own interests and to find passion for something, to learn business investment, start some new things that makes money and gives me enjoyment & passion for the work that i do, become an independent who can do things on my own but as of now[1 yr passed ] i didn't achieve even one of the things that wanted to do, like i have zero knowledge about everything. you could say I'm just a newborn that came out of his nest for the first time. I did what i could do to achieve things on my own and not to distract from my actual goal but still i got totally distracted from my goal ,in the end nothing achieved. now i understand that i need a strong foundation to achieve things but i couldn't found out on my own so i thought of asking others opinion. I created this blog so that this will be helpful for a lot of people just like me who are wondering about this things for a while....

pls give me some advice to make myself as I mentioned above.....



THANKS FOR THE HELP IN ADVANCE ...:blobmelt::blobmelt:

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    1. LeniSnow Mar 29, 2023
      Don't beat yourself for taking a year off. I took three for a lot of reasons that kept me stuck in my own head, you're young and being able to develop this awareness to improve already show how well you'd turn out in the future. This stranger is believing in you so more that you should.

      Although I can't tell you how to focus and keep on your grind, or help you in identifying your goal and how to reach them. I can suggest things on how to be able to keep that mindset.

      First are self-help books, books like the power of now, silva mind control method, etc.
      Then meditation, im not saying that meditation can just magically help you figure out life but think of it as practicing discipline when you do it everyday. It's a routine that helps your brain become active and in contact with the energy you're trying to attract by means of relaxation. There are different type of meditation, maybe it's by sitting down on lotus position, maybe lying down before sleeping or after waking up, maybe it's when you make your coffee in the morning. Find what works for you. I personally like the one with audio guidance which is widely available on youtube.
      It reminds me of that:
      A: "Why are you stressed?"
      B: "Because I can't do this"
      A: "Why can't you do it?"
      B: "Because I'm stressed!"

      Think of what you want to achieve in your life. Do you want to be rich and stable, happy, etc? Then keep that in your head all the time everyday, keep that thought in you, it doesn't matter how you get there you will get there through various means you probably haven't even thought about. You don't need to figure out your passion, it will come to you just trust yourself and take opportunity one at a time. You'll attract all these things just by tuning your frequency to that vibration. Don't think that you will be like this or that in the future, think of it as if you're one right now, just the feeling, how would you feel if you're actually living the life you've wanted and keep that energy all the time. You're not going to be stressed out like you are right now if you think that way so it's also a good practice for your mind.
      The universe will make way for you.
      You just need to start the motor running and everything will fall in to their places.
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    2. nayumi_.0o Mar 29, 2023
      hello! i just want to tell you to not stress too much. some people have still not figured out their life by the age of 40 and its okay.

      im not saying that we should just let things go as we also need to work hard to achieve things. :blobsmilehappy:

      i had a counselling program in my college a few weeks ago and one of my classmates asked the question regarding gap years. he had similar reasons as you. he has a parttime job at a shop, he wanted to create content, he wanted to get his driver's liscence and moreover learn about business as he wants to move from science stream to management stream.

      the counsellor at that time had told him to enroll in external classes that he had interest in, reach out to people who have previously taken a gap year, and the like. but also told us, if we ever felt like taking a gap year just wasted time then we must enroll to an actual educational facility like colleges that will provide them in-depth guidance and knowledge. reaching out to professionals who can provide you more help in making decisions would be for the better.

      in the end, even my words are temporarily taken from someones else's mouth. all my best wishes to you :blobpensivepray:
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    3. yourmomtenkeyy Mar 29, 2023
      lol! I studied PCM in high school but it wasn't my thing so after I barely graduated from high school I stayed home for 2 years doing nothing.
      during the third year my mom got so pissed and she gave me a warning that she will throw me outta house. so I picked up my bags and started going to a business school which I still think isn't my THING.
      im confused too but I think im more like THE GO WITH THE FLOW KINDA GUY
      well, im really in no place to give u any suggestions; so im just sharing my life so u can knw how other ppl are surviving.
      anyways dude u r 18 and im 21 now and still haven't found what im interested in.
      so CHILL
      IT WILL COME WHEN IT COMES



      OR MIGHT JUST AS WELL NOT COME



      ANYWAYS BE MORE OPTIMISTC
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    4. mikey sane Mar 29, 2023
      Hii, for the first time i created a blog. I created this blog in desperate search of answer for my question that had been piled up but still couldn't get proper answer on my own. so I'm asking my fellow online friends....
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