Got the news that one of my Super Senior got married to her BF,great right? Well it isn't because that Bf of her's was abusive maybe still is. So, that got me thinking,why would someone marry the person who abuses them? What so great about that type of person? Putting your self respect aside and tolerating physical or mental torture, is this what LOVE supposed to be? I have seen many more girls like her getting abused by their bf but still chooses to stay with him. Some even tries their best to meet the selfish demands of their bf. Like if their bf doesn't wants them to wear a particular type of clothing they won't wear it and the irony is girls fight with their parents if they ask them to do the same thing. What makes a bf so special that they are willing to listen his words rather than their parents? How come a bf words sounds like a care to them while parents words sounds restriction (which is actually their care)? I have never been hit by my parents especially by my Father (well, a lot by my Mother though. Lol!) and i guess so do every girl (because believe it or not we are our Dad's favourite). So i can't think of letting go of a person who even tries to hit me. Physical abuse is still too far of a thing to think we shouldn't even stay with the person who abuses us verbally. Also it's not like only girls stays in a toxic relationship Boys do to. They will keep seeing a girl even if she doesn't treat them right and treats them like one of the thing she owns. Nobody deserves to be treated like a thing whether a girl or a boy. No love should be above your SELF RESPECT (at least that's what i think). The so called TRUE LOVE we think of only exists in movies. Movies makes us believe that Love is all sparkly and shiny. But it has more darker side to it than we know. Even we don't know what love is. We confuses love with infatuation or in some cases obssession. Only few people actually understand the depth of love. And embrace its both brighter sparkly side as well as its darker side. But I guess it's hard to find or meet such people in this world where people say I LOVE YOU all day like they say THANK YOU and SORRY without knowing that if they actually are in love or not!!
All these things got me thinking DO WE ACTUALLY FALL IN LOVE OR FALL FOR THE IDEA OF BEING IN LOVE??
And most importantly WHAT IS LOVE??