How To Win An Argument Without Making Enemies

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I incidentally got this in my Youtube video link and thought: Gee that is very well explained. So I thought I'd share it here for everyone. >_>



It's great to find common ground and live together with our differences.

Peace :)

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    1. Tofu Cat Nov 15, 2019
      well, arguing already puts me in a bad mood so it doesn’t matter... if I win, then I’d be happy. if I ‘lose’ bc I was wrong, then I’d be happy too bc I was enlightened lol. but if I lose bc the person’s eloquence was a level higher and not bc they right... then I’d look for them to be my teacher. jk no idk I guess I’ll look for someone else to help meh? ‍♀️

      Of course this ^^ is all on the prerequisite that they aren’t complete assholes in the first place. I treat people how they treat me.

      “The world would be a better place if we worked better together.”
      true. but fr fr i won’t give a fuck. Imma person who usually avoids confrontation but if a person comes at me accusing shit and looking for confrontation I won’t be nice. I cant be nice to assholes lmao or else I’d be doing myself wrong.


      but yeah thank you for trying to make the works a brighter and better place :)
      I think I’ve seen that video before? but that was probably a long time ago


      [seen the how to win an argument peacefully or something video]
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    2. Femme Fatale Nov 15, 2019
      @Tofu Cat
      How does that work for you? Does that make you happy?

      I don't advocate for any one method.....but this gives you another avenue for communicating.
      Maybe a way to re-organise your thoughts, see things from another point of view., help others see yours ~

      The world would be a better place if we worked better together.

      Anyhow, I like to challenge myself like that. :)

      It's like trying to imagine what existing in other dimensions would be like. Here is a video if you are interested. >_>



      Then I listened to this ~



      And sometimes it all makes sense. :)
    3. Tofu Cat Nov 15, 2019
      I honestly don’t care. I mean if I’m arguing with them then I’m prepared to go all out with all my reasoning and whatever. Like I won’t try to antagonist them but just state my argument, listen to them and ~~

      if it’s a random stranger, we’d probably not meet again and in the unfortunate case that we do.. we’d probably just avoid each other? Or like if the argument is already finished then maybe we’d just get over it and be friends or something.

      if its a friend and what we’re arguing about is something small, then we’d probably get over it. Of course if we’re close then we’d get over it quicker, if we’re bare acquaintances then ig the friendship would... take a step back?
      If we’re arguing about something huge, there’d be Either many many rounds of arguing or just one of us would take a step back.

      If it’s an enemy I wouldn’t even bother arguing unless they rile me up baad lmao
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    4. Lurking Nov 10, 2019
      note to self watch later hw soon
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    5. Femme Fatale Nov 10, 2019
      @Dat_Karma Right now?:blobfearful: So much pressure :sweating_profusely::sweating_profusely::sweating_profusely::sweating_profusely::sweating_profusely:

      I was thinking, the Socrates Method is what many of my lecturers/professors would use in class.:blobhyperthink:
    6. Dat_Karma Nov 10, 2019
      @Femme Fatale Don't know but I would say that it depends on the people involved and the situation they are involved in. There are too many variables in reality to determine your stance on an unknown topic. In fact, I don't even know if there is anything I would unilaterally agree or disagree to. Give us a topic to argue with?
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    7. Femme Fatale Nov 10, 2019
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    8. Femme Fatale Nov 10, 2019
      @Hallow Cause - You mean, like when discussing something that's morally aberrant like pedophilia? The way I like to think about those moments is that it's a 'universal' truth which is important to reaffirm, but I think that even that can be done tactfully if required. I say if required cause you are right, some things have to just be said.

      Why do you say it's subjective btw?
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