There is no clear definition of the love between a man and a woman. My own experience says that in a strong bond of love it encompasses all kinds of feelings. I've a very strong maternal protective instinct and that extends to every one I love, be it a lover or a friend. It often makes me overlook the flaw in their nature or their eccentric behaviour. It can be often described as pure indulgence.
Just like that I've been treated as a silly lil girl by my loved one who doesn't mind even my biggest flaws.
So I wonder, what is this love that makes us overlook those flaws in our loved ones which may be despicable to others?
From my experience I'll say that as long as two people are in love they try to overlook or compromise with the apparent flaws in their partners, but if they begin to fall out of love, those previously overlooked matters tend to become very big, and sometimes, insurmountable.
Just like they say, if you lose the loving feeling, nothing can be worked out anymore.
@AliceShiki I was going to post this as a comment in your blog, but then thought of seeking out others' opinion on this.
Love and Our Flaws
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