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I just remembered these two stories and I think they can have many meanings or these stories are telling us something about "relationship".

Story 1:
A man was searching for the most beautiful flower so he went to a mountain to search for it. In the entrance of the mountain the man already saw a flower at first he thought that this was already the most beautiful flower but then he thought that this was just the entrance so he can still find another and most likely that its not because this was the entrance what more thats inside so the man entered the mountain. The man saw many flowers inside but its seems theyre not the most beautiful flower so he went deeper inside and saw more flowers but the man was disappointed cuz all the flowers that he saw inside the mountain he didnt saw the most beautiful flower. Then he remembered the flower that he saw in the entrance of the mountain and thought thats the most beautiful flower he saw. He ran fast towards the entrance of the mountain then when he arrived he saw that the flower was gone.

Theres something that we are looking for and look it somewhere else but the thing that we are looking for we didnt consider that its just near us or just happen we dont see it and blinded by our own thinking.

Story 2:
A couple was invited by their friends do mountain climbing. The couple agreed and then when they arrived in the meeting place its decided that they will form two groups. During the division the couple were separated. The group that woman belongs to was the first one to climb and the group that the man belong will follow after. The womans group came back and didnt saw the mans group. They were confused cuz the two groups didnt meet up in the mountain. They just went the camp to rest cuz its now getting dark and just wait there for the mans group to arrive. They put on the radio and the news reported that in the mountain that theyre in a landslide happened so the people thats near asked to be careful. The group then heard voices outside so the went out they were very happy cuz the mans group was safe then the woman discovered that her man was missing so she asked the group then they said, "An accident happened when we were climbing the mountain. There was a landslide. Your man died and we all survived." The woman sobbed and was comforted by the group and they went inside the camp. When the woman recovered she went outside to have some fresh air. Then she heard a sound in mountain coming towards her so she look at whats coming then he saw her man walking near her. She was shock and then the man smiled and said, "An accident happened when we were climbing the mountain. There was a landslide. All of thats in my group died and im the only one survived".
Who really died?

The one that died is/are the one/s who you really feed. To make it simple let me ask you a question. e.g. You are in a relationship with someone then your friend/s said to you that your partner has another man/woman then you asked your partner then he/she said he/she doesnt. Who will you believe your friend/s or your partner?

So what do think?

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    1. LAOG Aug 12, 2020
      The first one is a general case of always seeking more than what you already have. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, but sometimes it is. A gamble one must always take when seeking out a partner and various other aspects in life.

      The second needs way more information, simply because cheating you have to take into account everyone's intentions. Good friends can suddenly change depending on how they feel about your significant other. Their intentions can be good or bad. Proof would have to be provided by the person making the claim. A landslide killing one or a whole group can easily be solved as both could have thought the other died. Cheating on the other hand must be proven through various sources, witnesses, etc..
    2. Loti12 Aug 12, 2020
      Those stories bring back a old memories,
      i really made a lot of a mistakes
      But what can i say lessons don't come free.
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    3. Anra7777 Aug 12, 2020
      First one seems like the man has a case of FOMO (fear of missing out). I think that’s pretty understandable from human psychology. If he had picked the first flower in the beginning, he might always have wondered if he could have found a better flower. I think that’s one possible reason first relationships tend to fail.

      As for the second one, I think a landslide is different from cheating. If I had cause to suspect one side was a ghost, of course I’ll believe my husband more than my friends. But when it comes to cheating, the man has an incentive to lie (my not divorcing his a—), and my friends, if they’re good friends, have an incentive (my well being) to tell the truth. Unless I just happen to have scum friends who would lie about that sort of thing. Hopefully, I don’t. I’d probably want proof first before I confront my husband, but if I have good friends, they’ll help me find the proof and support me with my confrontation.
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