When you want to beat someone badly

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Raneday

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Life is full of ups and downs, and it's full of annoying people too. And for no reason at all those people will just go annoy you just for the heck of annoying you.
And even though you've tried your best to ignore that person for some reason that person just kept interjecting in your every day life. So you really really really want to beat that person so baaaaadly. But due to physical difference and the laws too you just simply can't beat that person right?













TL;DR: Sooooooo anyone volunteering to be hit?

@akki @Lovely @Matsurika @Osamaru @Tony @BlancFrost @AliceShiki


Edit: And dam never thought that this would be my very first blog here on NUF

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    1. BlancFrost Dec 9, 2017
      we were never punching bags >~< Punching bags don't talk!
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    2. Viator Dec 7, 2017
      Ignoring people like that never works. (take it from one who knows) However direct force can lead to some undesired consequences. At the risk of sounding like an evil mastermind, learn to pull the strings in the darkness. Don't focus your attention on your tormentors but on the people around them, the people they interact with and their associates. If you can find a way to make them your ally you can shut down your enemy. Of course, this takes practice and experience observing people. That is my horrible advise as a twisted person.
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    3. Raneday Dec 13, 2017
      @Osamaru when was the time that you aren't
      @gggo if hitting them with darts is possible irl
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    4. gggo Dec 13, 2017
      I used to pin the photos of people I don't like on a dartboard and used it for target practice. I also tend to scream myself hoarse underwater in the pool at uni. there's a lot of ways to deal with anger issues in a nonviolent way. i remember once a classmate who would often smear ballpen ink on the faces of people she doesnt like, and put gum on the hair of the girls she thinks are prettier than her. lol
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    5. Raneday Dec 9, 2017
      @blanfrost @Lovely new generations punching bag?
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    6. Raneday Dec 8, 2017
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    7. Tramsloof Dec 8, 2017
      People annoy you on purpose when they see that you are disturbed. They are fascinated with your reactions and in a sense, they are sadists, who love tormenting others.

      To start with, you have to take a step above ignoring their existence. You need to adopt indifference towards them, at least on surface.

      Then, scheme. If you want someone to stop doing something, you just need to have a card over them. Treat them to a free meal and see whether they are shameless enough to repeat their actions. If they are, it's time to play with fire. Get on some online to mobile texting service, and start harassing the individual. And when you see the person IRL, extend your help towards any issue they are facing.

      Pretend to be on call with someone in front of them and say 'I want this to stop happening to this person'. After that, just stop harassing the person. And say to him 'I want you to stop doing this and this'. He will listen. Oh listen, he will.
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    8. m7vpc Dec 7, 2017
      If you truly want to resolve conflict, ignoring won't work like Viator mentioned. But being manipulative isn't the answer either. The best way is to have a conversation with someone. Tell them that they annoy you but also mention in what details/examples explicitly. Lastly, but most challenging, you need to humble yourself and not get over emotional. Tell them that you really desire to change the situation and that you want to apologize for acting "mean" against them (I'm guessing you're trying to intentionally ignore them too).

      And that calls for determination. Good luck.
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