Discussion Need help saying no

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by leo.d., Feb 15, 2018.

  1. leo.d.

    leo.d. Well-Known Member

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    okay, there is this dude on a game I’m playing that gives me his number and wants me to call him. I’m not into that. I’m like nope but he doesn’t get it. How do I tell him that I don’t want to call him and I don’t like being pressured to do something I’m no comfortable with?
     
  2. Erroneous

    Erroneous Gentleman Bastard™

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    Fuck off?

    Yeah, fuck off.
     
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  3. Chrono Vlad

    Chrono Vlad 『Banned From Drinking』

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    Can't you just block him or something?
     
  4. leo.d.

    leo.d. Well-Known Member

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    I hate coming off as rude. He’s like I’m want to know who you really are as a women. And I’m just ehhhhhh?

    I usually don’t take that measure but I’m considering it
     
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  5. Erroneous

    Erroneous Gentleman Bastard™

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    If you’ve already mentioned it and he chose to ignore it or just can’t comprehend what you’re trying to say then sometimes you need to be rude.
     
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    Astaroth empty

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    say no, if it doesn't work, well bye bye *blocked*
     
  7. Amss

    Amss Well-Known Member

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    tell him you're actually a man
     
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    Block and move on.

    You don't need the drama in your life.
     
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  9. Khatulistiwa

    Khatulistiwa An Egg Eternal

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    Just say no thanks, your gaming and private life is separate or something
     
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  10. enkay

    enkay Well-Known Member

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    Lets start with the basics, ok.
    First say N... and then O....
     
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  11. Kuro_0ni

    Kuro_0ni Cocooned in a Life transition

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    You are not rude, if you just say your an introvert, and your not one to get to know others.
     
  12. Shaiole

    Shaiole Mad scientist

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    Tell u lost your phone? Or u dont have one.
    Most likely, if he is smart, he will know you are lying, and will get the idea?
    If not, then just leave it as that
     
  13. Kuro_0ni

    Kuro_0ni Cocooned in a Life transition

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    If you don't say something clearly, then it will become misunderstood and the opposite party may take it as flirting in a sense (the hard to get type)

    Don't cause misunderstandings, it will not end well for you
     
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  14. TrussiaLink

    TrussiaLink A Cultivator of the Dao of Cute

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    There is nothing wrong about speaking harshly to somebody who is being rude.
     
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    13th Echelon Piping Hot Member

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    Curse him and your prob will be solved.
     
  16. asriu

    asriu fu~ fu~ fu~

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    keep going no
    yeah insist on it
    do you have ingame friend?
    ask them to warn that doodle
    last step block
     
  17. Allchemic

    Allchemic Well-Known Member

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    Take a photo of a man's hairy leg -> send it to him -> wait for him to puke. Done.
     
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    Edonis Well-Known Member

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    Whoa, if you met him through the internet (game), and he has no connection with him in real life, then just say no.
    Now if he's part of your raid group or something, just say you'll gladly talk to people on the game, but not comfortable calling others or something.
     
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  19. neogamer

    neogamer Cute is justice!「Maxwell 」

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    You have no obligation to be nice. Being rude is necessary to protect yourself. If he doesn't like it oh well he can go fuck himself. I am saying this as a guy. BE RUDE! You don't like his attention, SAY THAT. Seriously be rude.
     
  20. Kagutsuchi

    Kagutsuchi 『Omnipresent Reader』

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    Tell him that you're a Hideyoshi