Yaoi only for 2d (well as a tease to @Kudaranai too) , not 3d for me ! It's not like straight people imagine people doing stuff together ! (well idk do some people do that , maybe they do ?!) Well why should people who love yaoi do that ?
I know it's hard to believe for you, but some people have stamina and will for it. Anyway what behaviour doesn't make a creep, well mr. Genius I guess it would be that which you'll never see since coz you can only see someone's behaviour IRL. Btw congrats on your Sherlockian deduction that liking lesbians makes men creeps, so 70% of men are creeps according to you.
It can all be concluded with one word: "Pervert" A pervert can be a male or female, and it is courageous....(plz don't fact check)
anyways I just gotta point out that regardless of other things being pointed out here, "Are the girls who like yaoi the equivalent of male creeps?" is a blanket statement that directly contradicts "Anyway everyone has their fantasies, that doesn't make us creeps, it's our behaviour that does.", since you're implying with those two statements combined that love of yaoi can't simply be a fantasy. also, the reason why people are mad is because "friend, she's fat n ugly" just call her an acquaintance if you don't actually think of her as a friend (lots of people backstabbed by fake friends), and making judgement calls on the attractiveness of others is rather pointless if you simply wanted to know if girls who love yaoi are "creeps". I don't have any problems with you liking lesbians or wanting 4 girls at once (even though lesbian porn is low on my personal ero preference and yet I consider myself a het male), but your attitude honestly stinks and is the main cause for people ragging on you.
If your story and description of her is 100% complete and accurate, then I'd say it would probably make her a creep. Can't say for sure without more information (and actually knowing the person in question) though. I wouldn't use the word "equivalent" like that though. There are lots of different types of creeps, and then individual differences.
I'm the kind of guy who don't really care about other people interest as long as it doesn't affect me I Hope for yuri or bl with interest to have there own place to group like all manga/stories/novels/hentai in that one place so i can effectively avoid them since as long as it doesn't burn or disgust my eyes its fine everyone has there own interest right?
True that, even if you're looking at it from a straight perspective, undressing someone with your eyes and imagining more is rude and creepy.
If I'm sittin in a bus or sth opposite to your friend and she looks at me like that it's utterly disgusting to me. I don't give a fuck about what she thinks or imagines, just don't show it on your face (especially ugly people, it gives others the creeps and isolates you). That's basic curtesy that should be normal as for my reaction, I would run away faster than usain bolt can
I like reading yaoi because the story is usually more interesting. However, I also read a lot of other genre's as well and I don't look for yaoi in real life. I guess what I'm trying to say is there are creeps in every genre not just yaoi and there are "normal" people as well. Everyone sees normal differently. I say to each their own if it's not hurting anyone else.
At least 50% of the world is religious(mainly Christian, Muslim, ect.) so I kinda doubt that. My problem with it is (1) I am religious so I am naturally against homosexuality. (2) If the girl is a lesbian, and she is pretty, what do I do if want to go at her? lol (By saying that religious people are all against homosexuality would be wrong but based of most religious beliefs, that's how it should be)
Yes if someone is actively imagining either having sex with someone they see or imagines them having sex with... someone else and let's it show that they're doing so in public, they're a bit creepy. All in all they're just perverts and aren't anything new. Off-topic: If you find it creepy enough to go on a forum and talk about it maybe don't hang out with her... or you know... tell her in person that you find it creepy and ask her nicely to stop.
For me, BL and Yuri is only funny on 2D. In real life, that's called Gay and Lesbian. So yeah, that's creepy. Don't mix Reality and Fiction.
Those statements do not contradict each other. Having fantasies is ok, undressing someone with your eyes and imagining more is not, that's the difference between fantasy and behaviour which is pretty clear by itself, though apparently not on this forum. I said sort of a friend and I meant it, but since you asked for explanation that isn't relative at all to this thread here goes : we used to be friends, but she's incredibly grumpy, depressive and is always verbally attacking me for no reason so we've grown apart(and no she's not in love with me if you're thinking of joking about that). My attitude as you can see is fine, your interpretation however isn't.