Since the Females of nuf are the most experienced and open...What exactly did i do wrong in this situation? BTW, when i said "hehe" it was because i thought she was joking.... anyway, assistance is requested please. Edit: How the chat started... the "im back btw" is cause i left the group to go do something and came back 2 min later.
She might genuinely have forgotten and you replied with that sarcastic "oh" .... I would consider that a dick move too. Could've just said...oh what? She said nvm ok. It's an indication to move on from that topic. But no, you continue. She said it again. But you ignored it and continued to talk about urself. She said it bluntly. You finally got the hint.
Bit touchy, isn't she? I mean, you could read that ""oh" lol" reply as a sort of slight jab at her, and maybe indicating that you took offense? But not enough to go off like that. Seemed like she was being pretty rude and unfriendly from the beginning, though. Did not want to talk to you for some reason?
Prolux: [Lazy] [Paranoid] [Insomniac] You are not lazy, remove this. Look so much work you are putting in a bitch.
Your “oh” lol response is where you messed up. She took it as mocking to her response, same with the “ummmmm ok” response. Then you pressed with the topic/wouldn’t let it go, she got annoyed and bluntly/force ended the conversation.
Some people find it offensive to repeat what they said in such manner. Especially since you added the lol part. ... But I'm just a passing introverted doggo so what would I know?
So why is this in novel general category? But it's mostly the quotation on your oh made it seem like you're being sarcastic & mocking. But jeez.. This girl needs a chill pill... I've had female friends that get pissed easily but not this easy
Female: It seemed you were getting snappy when you repeated it, as if you were annoyed. They later realised their mistake and felt embarrassed about it and didn't want to take the time to explain as you were already probing too much. Maybe they wanted an out as soon as possible, maybe they didn't have the words at the moment to explain, or maybe they were busy/annoyed and you caught them at a bad time.
Let me give you a hint mate, you kind of asked for it with this line "Who you were too shy to talk too lol" and from there your answers were... how should I say this... well, idiotic too say the least (I don't know what is the deal with that person but she clearly had you in the palm of her hand) and I will stop here because I don't want trouble with any feminists But let me tell you this, your best option now is to go ask for Heartlace's help if you want to talk to her again( thought I must say that you should probably stay away from people like her )
The moment you feel that you kinda screwed up eventhough you don't know why, its best to just apologize even if you think you didn't do any wrong. Of course this is only if you really thirst for that.
sorry, only can provide you, possibilities. maybe she just had a fight and in a state of bad mood? because like men who are divided into several types. must a woman type like your friend type can really answer it.
Amen to this... I don't wanna be mean about her but if she'll continually snap at a heartbeat like that... It's basically a recipe for toxic fights later on. The headaches aren't worth it bro
Yeeeeaaaahhh.... calling her out on her shyness was a dick move. Most people don’t actually like their being shy brought up. Then it seemed like you were lightly mocking her. Then you were being pushy and not letting it go.