Miaka_Mei

“其实死并不可怕，很多时候，活下去才是最需要勇气的事情。”

Don't kill yourself, just saying, heaven or hell might be a good place, but I rather be here, LIVING

True true *claps*

@Rufi-sidd The Promotion Record of A Crown Princess .

I just finished reading the raws. It was so funny and satisfying!! Such a shame the translator failed to properly convey the humor, so, some readers might not enjoy the story...

Oh yeh sometime it happens since the languages are all different using different words and expressions for different context.....

Your avi is nice btw~
Ergo proxy?

That's like just applying first aid. Not gonna heal the wound in my heart cause my mind can't auto-translate it...

That question of yours... is like asking, why am I replying to you in English.

Why not?

Erm, forum rules?
Haha oh well, don't mind me and and my random question. >.>

杨严又是张了张嘴，终于问道：“我只是纳闷，你为什么要自称‘老子’，你就是称不是也得称‘老娘’吗？”

我：“……”

看着杨严那一双求知若渴的眼睛，我想了想，有些吃力地坐起身来，很是认真地问道：“你不觉得‘老子’二字比‘老娘’更有气势一些？”

杨严奇道：“真的？”

我郑重点头：“不信你就喊一喊试试，气势绝对不一样。”

一旁的茅厕君突然失笑出声，杨严这才反应过来，恼怒道：“你耍我？”

“呀？”我惊讶地挑高眉毛，反问：“你才知道啊？”

杨严怔了一怔，眼瞅着就要恼羞成怒。

杨严却是回头说道：“九哥，你不知道，这丫头可是在江中央扔得我，心狠得很，我怎么也得叫她多在水里泡泡再说！”

我听了这话却觉得十分可笑，忍不住放声大笑了几声，这一笑不要紧，口里又是进了几口水，更是有水窜入了气管，呛得我眼泪直流。

我扬着脖骂杨严道：“杨严你个怂蛋，老子辛苦带你渡江你不记恩，却只记得当时弃你之仇，你分明会水，却叫个女人为你拼得个力竭，你拍着胸口问问自己，若不是受你拖累，老子独自一人可是能游过这宛江？”

越骂越是觉得这世道可笑，我仰头看向茅厕君，骂道：“你也别来做什么好人，齐晟不是好东西，你也不是，你们几个，文不能定国武不能安邦，只会对着个女人耍点阴谋诡计，你们还算是男人吗？你们身上零件都长齐了吗？老子都替你们觉得丢人！”

我拼尽全身最后的力气，拼力向上跃了一下，冲着船上骂道：“啊——呸！”

再沉入水中时，我放弃了踩水，任着身体向江底沉了下去。

老子这个女人做够了！老子不陪这伙子王八羔子玩了！

……

再醒过来已是在床上，被褥松软，温暖干燥。我长长地叹了口气，转过头看立在床边沉默不语的茅厕君和杨严。

杨严张了张嘴，欲言又止。

我便坦言道：“我就知道你们得救我上来，你们哪舍得我这么死了啊，所以我得趁着那个机会狠骂你们一顿，过了那村就没那店了。”

杨严又张了张嘴，还是欲言又止。

我又爽快承认道：“没错，我就赌这一骂一沉，你们心里没准还能觉得我性格刚烈，反而能对我高看一眼。”

我热情地：“尝尝，都尝尝，别嫌不好。”

杨严盛情难却，只得又伸手拿了一块栗子糕，咬了一口。

我问：“甜吗？”

杨严点点头：“还行！”

我又问：“那莲子糕呢？快尝尝。”

杨严用力地咽下口中的栗子糕，有些无奈地又拿了块莲子糕。

“这块怎么样？”

“……”

绿篱见杨严噎得难受，连忙想要去拿水，被我一个眼神给止住了，同情地看了看杨严，又站了回去。

杨严噎得直顺脖子：“水……水……”

我这转头叫绿篱：“绿篱，赶紧地，灌水！”

真是个好绿篱啊，不愧是我放在心窝窝里的人啊！绿篱端了个茶壶就上去了，又叫几个小宫女上前把杨严摁住了，掰开嘴就是一阵猛灌。

杨严连噎带呛，一阵猛咳。

我忙叫：“哎！哎！这是呛住了，用力捶背，用力捶！快点！”

绿篱连忙丢了茶壶去捶杨严的后背，无奈小姑娘气力太小了，我越看越心急，终于耐不住了，冲上去对着杨严后背就是一顿猛捶。

我让你吃瓜子，我让你吃桂花糕，我让你拍巴掌，我让你上树，我让你上树……我捶不死你！

终还是绿篱心软看不下去了，小心地问我：“娘娘……不会打……那个……什么了吧？”

我停手，果然见杨严只低着头没了动静，心里也是悚然一惊，吓，报复是正当的，搞出人命来可就成了报复过当了。

正忐忑间，杨严似动了动，又咳了两声，然后才缓缓回过头来，满脸的水渍，也不知道是眼泪还是刚才被绿篱灌下去的茶水，只默默无声地瞅我半晌，然后抹一把泪水，嘶哑着嗓子问：“得多大的仇啊？您能下这狠手……”

5. Don’t replay what they said and did to you. Don’t let the memory of an undesirable event hurt you again and again. Think about a positive event, and every time you’re about think about the unfortunate event, replace it with the positive event. It doesn’t matter how far you’ve played the negative movie, press the pause button and switch to a positive channel.

6. If they’ve done damage to you, focus on how you can improve your situation. Don’t think about how you can make them pay. Don’t get distracted from improving your life.

7. Keep praying. Be patient- keep living with your values. None of your hard work will go vain, you’ll become a stronger Muslim and inshaAllah-

Have patience, Allah(swt) doesn’t deny the rewards of the righteous. (11:115)

Wait, am I being a bad Muslim?

If you’re feeling bad about yourself, you can focus on these ways to please Allah(swt)-

Don’t treat them the way they treated you.
Don’t retaliate
Don’t back bite about them
Don’t complain about them
Don’t gripe on social media about them
Don’t make assumptions about their faith/iman

What about forgiveness?

Like acceptance, forgiveness is a process. It’s not a switch that you can turn on right away after you’re traumatized.

So, be patient and don’t be hard on yourself for not being able to forgive your toxic family member right off the bat.

Forgiving someone is NOT the same as condoning what they did to you.

It’s choosing to respond wisely to an unfortunate event.

Forgiving is taking back control of your life from anger, despair and stress that stems from traumatic events.

Remember, no one gets away with oppressing another person.

Allah(swt) accepts the prayers of an oppressed person and will bring the abuser to justice.

Find calm and solace in Allah’s justice and wait for it’s manifestation inshaAllah.

@Silva ....what?

I go unseen

All shall be revealed

http://blog.islamiconlineuniversity.com/how-to-deal-with-toxic-family-members-from-islamic-and-counseling-sources-part-i/

https://blog.islamiconlineuniversity.com/deal-toxic-family-members-islamic-counseling-sources-part-ii/

http://simplymuslimmom.com/why-holding-on-to-toxic-family-members-is-harmful-for-you-and-what-to-do-about-them/

https://www.sisters-magazine.com/detoxing-from-toxic-people/

This sounds really interesting..... Is that the name of the novel you mentioned in the hashtag unruly phoenix xiaoyao?

@Rufi-sidd despite how serious the spoiler sounded... this novel is mainly comedy. ♥️

oh like mc's inner funny thoughts? I'll start this one then.... this Xiaoyao is the mc right?

Therefore being professional requires a soldier to uphold the laws.

Dont overdo and spoil them either

https://www.69shu.com/txt/29323/19401402

Quick. Heh.

Am I reading a resume?

“Showering artificially raises the temperature again and allows for a faster cool down, which seems to hasten sleep.”But don’t get carried away.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/22/well/showering-morning-night.html

What else do you do?

@Bad Storm Kills what?

*kills Justabot*

@Bad Storm Sharp.