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  1. Prolux

    Prolux [Specifically Lazy] [Weirdly Motivated]

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    Uhhhh, no idea. Hope the previous comments answered... Might look at this thread if i ever bother to get a girlfriend as i have never had one... 17 years old and still haven't kissed a girl... smh... not that i care though...
     
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  2. Demizex

    Demizex Active Member

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    This guy knows what he is talking about, 6 month is barely anything but that comes with experience, and once you learn that one you will just remember the good "Kids Love" you had (dont take it as an insult)
     
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  3. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    o_O that is a VERY stupid reason to break up in my opinion.
    you clearly liked him since you are heartbroken, and he prob liked you back (i mean, i've read a lot of shitty dark romance novels but let's just say he loved you back) in that case i don't see why some time problems would matter, then again it depends.
    if you see yourself having no time for the next 3months+ then yeah i guess i can sorta understand, but then again people always have time. unless you work 12 hours a day you should have SOME time that you could spend with him or at least talk with him a little, and keep the relationship going until you both sort your situations out.
    my dark novel senses are tingling tho.
    depends on who proposed the breakup.
    if HE was the one who did it chances are he found this the perfect opportunity to break up with you without hurting you to much, maybe he just got bored of you? wait what am i doing. im just going to make you more depressed... yeah this aint a good idea on my part.
    but i'll say this.
    if HE was the one that proposed the break up get over him you are not getting him back and trust me you don't want him back, if you are the one that proposed it tho then i have literally no idea why you would do such a thing.
    you also have to realise 6 months isnt much, you prob like each other sure but i doubt you're full on 100% in love or anything otherwise this wouldnt be happening.
    but yeah if he was the one who broke up get over it, you'll find and you deserve better.
     
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  4. lucjanssens

    lucjanssens a very ¨rabbit¨ bunny

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    it all is your choice
    if you wan't you can go strait to a club and pick someone up
    or you can mourn for weeks
    your choose
     
  5. adislt

    adislt fanfic lover

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    Try to have a lot of positive activities that make you happy and keep positively busy
    For me the best advice i evr get is following the flow, never try to forget our ex but also at the same time don't try to remember them, life your live happily try to do new thing with friends and family or anyone that become distance from you after you in relationship with your ex
     
  6. Panda-emic

    Panda-emic • ♡ • Notaborax's Eternally Gone Waifu • ♡ •

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    thank you O wise one
    Oh my gosh, me too!! And I will look through our old photos and instagram!
     
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  7. Sushi

    Sushi Don't Believe Everything You See

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    There are two different type of people in relationship.

    One who doesnt want to be alone - usually the ones who moves on like nothing happened

    And the serious ones - ones who are usually fully committed to the relationship and have difficultly moving on.

    What i told my sister did when she dealt with break ups, was to hit the gym to relieving stress or getting yourself preoccupied by something is a good start.

    That worked for her, maybe try it
     
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  8. ReadOrDie

    ReadOrDie already dead

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    Sure, why not?
     
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  9. Lhie

    Lhie 『Procrastinator』「Argetlam」『Bibliophile』

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    Same. x.x like, i want to talk to him but i just can't--.
     
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  10. NaruYuuki

    NaruYuuki Well-Known Member

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    What? just because of that you broke up?
    Sorry didn't mean to preach you but there's alot of couple out there that have a long distance relationship, they cannot see each other for a long time but they still can endure it just with phonecall and e-mail (╥﹏╥)
    Including me right now, my girl is onboard study in japan but i'm stuck here in indonesia ( TДT) and our relation already for 5years and for the long distance Already about 2years but we still endure it (╥﹏╥)
    Man better get some tissue coz i feel like crying right now (ㄒoㄒ)
     
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  11. Panda-emic

    Panda-emic • ♡ • Notaborax's Eternally Gone Waifu • ♡ •

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    wait seriously? hahaha
     
  12. MEGA SPARTA CHICKEN

    MEGA SPARTA CHICKEN Planet sized warrior Tony without wisdom teeth

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    Too long DIDN'T READ after first two pages (there was something supportive and helpful here then I deleted it.) Be happy and worship me as the almighty god of chickens.
     
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  13. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    well that's a very awkward situation indeed.
    depending on the time when you broke up with him you can get back if you want.
    i dont know the details tho, just picture in your head and try to remember his exact reactions (if in person facial details too) he had when you broke up. and then use your head and think a little if its worth calling him trying to get back together, you're a big girl i'm sure you can figure that out for yourself.
    well best of luck to you!
     
  14. Ratatoskr

    Ratatoskr [Aruruu's proud dad] [The False Gentleman]

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    Meh probably cause you feel its unfair so want to get even. Wait till your heads clear a bit, then think it through.
    Well don't really listen to me. Romance is a good spice in life for me, but not something i can't live without. For now at least. I got other bigger commitment.
     
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  15. TypeFantasyHeart

    TypeFantasyHeart Well-Known Member

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    Get a cat and cuddle with it. You will feel better right away
     
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  16. Demizex

    Demizex Active Member

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    6 months with marriage in mind and crumbles on the first problem you stumble upon....i may touch a taboo but i give a dam already im 27 this year, and my longest relation was 3 years we went through a lot of shit, but the last hurdle was living together not marriage nor "time", once in the "living together step" you will learn if you will be able to have a good marriage yet 6 months sorry but sounds kinda rushed it seems to me that it was one of those "crushes" that die after you learn their way of life. what was his age.?
     
  17. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    accept this kowtow from me, oh our lord and savior the almighty chicken m[__]m
     
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  18. Panda-emic

    Panda-emic • ♡ • Notaborax's Eternally Gone Waifu • ♡ •

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    He cried ;^;
     
  19. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    then get back because that man loved you ^^
     
  20. ReadOrDie

    ReadOrDie already dead

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    Yeah, 10/10 serious. It would be nice to have have ramen together.