i 100% agree with you. however you have to realise our views are like this due to the novels we've read, and reality isn't quite as nice i'm sure you're not that naive aswell. your grandmother got incredibly lucky, maybe hopefully we'll get lucky too. yeah i will also not bend until i find the perfect person, and yet my fear is that it will be simply impossible to find that person and i'll die alone.
Sorry seems like i misunderstood somewhere anyway in that case then he just a piece of sh*t that can't properly do what he already promised to you Btw where do you lived? if you lived in a big city, like i said before go out and play be it by yourself or with your friend, let loose and be free of anything that put weight on your mind
.... if you waited for a month then yes. but its only been a day. he proposed to you for fucks sake, hell that guys probably drunk somewhere right now crying his eyes out. if you like him the correct thing to do is to get him back. and don't call or message him, just go to him. you are asking about how long it will take you to get over him, well then imagine how he must be feeling when he even proposed to you already. hes probably feeling 10x as bad as you right now and doesnt know what to do anymore.
go dating if you are ready for marriage. think about it. what follows after dating? break up? well having a relationship with someone needs that much commitment, and both parties need to have such for a lasting relationship~ unless you just wantit for other reasons like convinience or happiness.... well stop it.
then wtf are you doing go get him back >.< do you realise how incredibly rare it is to find a person you like, and that really likes you back? you basically won the lottery and then threw the ticket out.
Acceptable period of time to date again would be similar to the unwritten rule on pick up requests on novels. 3months would be enough to find another one but base on my experience it would take longer to move on especially if you really loved that person.
Well, I almost never really fall for anyone and if I do, it's been invariably one-sided. When I did, I did all I could to make it work even though I was shot down from basically the get-go; became a friend and got to the point of again having completely given up on relationships after about 4-5 yrs of not seeing each other in person. Still consider her a friend, of course. On the other hand, I helped a friend get over a 11 yrs relationship by introducing gaming to her and being there for her for some years. Last I heard, she's happily married. Summa summarum, depending on person, it can take several years too and I find that, firstly, not being in touch at all and, secondly, having something to take your attention away are the most efficient ways.
Can i go with you bro?? Please dont do that! Its making yourself soo low..dont do that! Dont beg! Its okay for boys to beg but its a no!no! for girls!
Who needs a boyfriend right? This is the 21st century, and your not some helpless maiden stuck in a tower. Just find a friend and be friends, they don't have to be a guy either. I guess it depends on if you want intimacy in a relationship or are you just feeling like trying again after having your heart broken. Think about it, if it's the first, then sure, go ahead and try again. But if its the 2nd, reconsider and maybe instead of going full boyfriend-girlfriend, you just get a group of friends and leave it at that. There's no point in a relationship if your expecting it to fail, its just becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Ok i think she already understood that she fked up so there is no point in keep blaming her, as for going out looking for him i advise against it...since it will only be a relation that can crumble to the minimal problem...i dont see future in that.
seeing how the girl likes him, and how the guy liked her, even proposed to her, and cried when they broke up. i doubt its a relationship with no future.
Hang on with other gals. Get a booze. Don't stay at home. Switch off your phone. Go somewhere. Really far, if possible. Try something new. So many possibilities. You wont really move on until you free yourself from the thought "will I really be able to move on?" Or "am I even moving on?" Yes. This is atleast what me and my other peeps think about moving on. Works like charm.