very frustrated with life atm ._.

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  1. The Stalker

    The Stalker devoted stalker

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    Don t forget to download some porn! Its important for "research" time!
    Also good luck
    Also the army is always recruiting and they also pay for the training if you work 5 or 10 years for them (in france at least)
     
  2. Casshern080

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    Seems like a tough situation but it seems like you want to workbut you want it easy. Which isn't going to happen at all. I suggest finding work in a supermarket or fast food chain. Yes it will be hard but it will pay you and it will help ease your mother's burden. And you don't seem to want to make sacrifices seeing as how you would rather sell your siblings stuff instead of yours. Put yourself in your mother's shoes, rasing 3 kids ain't easy solo.


    Also not sure why you work for free. You should probably talk to your school and get it sorted. Find out if you can do apprenticeship which can also help you learn and earn at the same time.
     
  3. methael

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    Im in Canada studying at a university and i also have job. I know many people who work and study. Its tough but possible. You have to be strict with yourself and persevere. To clean my head i go to the gym at nights, it helps a lot, it also boosts my confidence. Sadly, i barely have anytime to read novels :( . Have to read them in class sometimes or work.
     
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  4. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    Like i said i'm not getting a single cent from that 100€ otherwise i would repair my phone with 50€.
    And internet is slow and hasnt been payed in 5 months or so and it WILL get shut off in the next 2 weeks or so, and even if i had faster internet i wouldn't be able to do anything because i have no bank account and cannot make one because i need to renew my pass.
    And i cant renew my pass, because since i dont have german citizenship yet (will get it next year), and it costs to much to get a polish one here in germany.
    I COULD MAYBE find a weekend job but at that point i wouldn't be living i would be a machine and my depression would return, havr barely any free time as is.
    No money for a counselor and last time i was at a therapist because i had a mental breakdown, almost kms and mom called 911 they told me they can't do anything without giving me drugs with very severe sideeffects basically brainwashing so i'm not going there.
     
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    @R3C4P , youre germany right? try helps your brother here.
     
  6. Rakiin

    Rakiin Pokemon Slave Trader

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    I don't wanna read this, I dont like the title.
     
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    Nah, just my personal rambling.... sorry. for the jobs though, many people failed at school and dropout but they could still live and be happy with themselves (i wont say successfull ones but hey it may be you someday). Just for now stay strong in school and maybe find some jobs that will pay you for living cost.

    I agree... just no matter the problem never hold up your feeling for too long consult with somebody will make u feel better.
     
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    Hang in there fam, worst comes to worst you lead a life of crime.

    On another note, alimony is hell to pay and if you can't make it you go to jail, running is the best option unless you're wealthy or willing to live with a burden tbh.
     
  9. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    17 years old. 9th grade dropout.
    If i want to work at a supermarket or even a fast food chain i need to pass 9th grade which i am currently doing and would need 2 extra years of basically apprenticeship where they wouldnt pay me either.
    The school is designed for dropouts hence its half school half work, half school beause we obv need to pass the grade and half work so we have an easier time finding work with 1 year work experience because the school expects us all to barely pass.
    Using american terms 9th grade should equal to high school.
    Since after 9th grade you get a special certificate and same at the end of highschool as far as i know.
    Also 4 kids have an older sis as well thats still going to school.
    Also i would not "rather sell my siblings stuff than my own" because other than my 3.5year old samsung s4 that broke and the pc i got from a friend using money from the sold 3ds and money meant for my food i have nothing else.
    Even the backpack i have is something we found lying on the streets, it looks ok tho.
     
  10. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    There are many charities to help people in your situation at least with meals. Get in touch with a local chapter.
    You can earn meals by volunteering and it will help your mental health if you are making a positive impact on another person's life.
    You need a tutor.
     
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  11. Casshern080

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    Sounds like a tough situation honestly not sure how to advice you, since UK have different laws and system. In UK you can work at 16, my sister is working currently while going to college. Is there some state funds/benefits you can apply for?
     
  12. Damsell in Distress

    Damsell in Distress Waiting for dashing MC to save me from myself

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    I don't know what to say, tho I know several people who have similiar problem but they still have some distant relative who can help them
     
  13. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    Since i'm currently living at my moms and am going to school no i cannot apply for any state funds.
     
  14. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    Had a loving grandma that passed away a few years back, now i only have a grandpa that cares not about us but about money, after grandma died he even skimped on the money mom sent him for the grave, he bought a cheap one that cost 30% of what he got, he didnt cry one bit at the funeral.
    And a week later he was already happy dancing listening to music and found himself another gf so fuck that guy.
     
  15. SnowTime

    SnowTime Busy Busy Busy, I Dug Too Many Holes

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    Plant a couple pots of cherry tomatoes, super easy to grow~ better eat something than nothing right? Just get a random dying one and chucked it into the pot. Maybe even sell them as organic fruits for a couple bucks~?

    Need soil just go outside in some random place with soil and dig it up. If your place rains frequently you can leave it out and not even bother to water it

    Can also plant some random beans, just chuck a few to spare
     
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  16. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    I advice that you throw your pride away and get help from anyone who is not a criminal and wont get you in legal trouble.
    About religion, the main duty of a church is to feed people and provide jobs. If your church isnt doing that then you are going to the wrong one
     
  17. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    The food situation isnt that bad, my lil sis rarely comes home and eats at her friends and me, mom and my lil bro dont eat much.
    Our bodies got used to eating less its not like we are starving to death here and have to go beg for food, tho mom did go to a special place where they gave out old bread that didnt get sold for free but that was 4 years ago, compared to then we are living like kings now lmao.
     
  18. Exterial

    Exterial @pocketbear ,much oneesama, very friendly, kawaii.

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    Um i think you missunderstood, there is no help to be gotten from my grandpa if anything he is constantly asking us to finance his stupid trips around the world, and im not starving to the point of having to go to a church and beg for food, im used to eating less.
     
  19. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    Like I said get rid of your pride, you need to eat enough to be able to study well.
    You are growing. Most of the foods churches, pantries and soup kitchens get are donated and thrown away when not used.
    I volunteered at such a place.
    Your brain and other organs will not develop well if you dont get the right amount of food
     
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  20. siwakotisaurav

    siwakotisaurav Well-Known Member

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    Damn dude, your story made me feel that I have a way better life than you and I usually am just wallowing in self-pity.

    Oh and that part about having to work for free, such bullshit move by your school.