How do you know if someone sincere or not ?

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  1. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    I'm not really good at judging character:blobsleepless:. So I want to know what does it take to know if someone is sincere or not?
    It will be helpful if you can tell me your opinion/story about this, like your real experience
    Oh btw I want to know too if someone is tsundere/not :sushi_chubby:
     
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  2. Land of The Fallen

    Land of The Fallen Hax's | Immortal

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    For tsundere... All I can say is don't expect tsundere to go...
    "Here! I made you this! It's not because I care for you or anything! :blobtriumph:"
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    Then again... There might be actual people like that...:sweating_profusely:
    As for the sincere part... Can't help you there... I too, cannot tell...:blobwoah:
     
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  3. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    It's easy to know if someone is Tsundere or not, it's real life? then no, because it's a fictional personality type in Japanese animation. :blobastonished:
     
  4. cboy123

    cboy123 A Very Dirty Old Man

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    When they send you memes to destroy the crippling depression of yours...
    That's sincerity.
     
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    xluferx [The writer who writes for fun][Meme lord]

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    Facial expressions, the eyes, body expressions, the voice. That's is to tell who is sincere and who isn't.

    Tsundere?
    Mmmm....Baka!
     
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  6. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    What about the opposite, and they sincerely wish to destroy you?~ :hmm:
     
  7. cboy123

    cboy123 A Very Dirty Old Man

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    Jokes aside... It's maybe vague but... WHEN YOU NEED SOMEBODY THE MOST.... They are there for you.
     
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    Saitama.sensei [[xiantian lifeform]]

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    Body language, facial expression, speech tone, past actions.. it’s a combination of many things.
     
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    Leosinurat [Master of None]

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    From the way (s)he help you and your identity

    If you are a silkpant, a rich 2nd generation young master, trust me they will sincerely help you (for money)
     
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    You lick their sweat ,you can tell because it has the taste of a liar
     
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  11. cboy123

    cboy123 A Very Dirty Old Man

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    Wise Man, I always believed that when they found out your "mighty treasure chest" in that "secretly dark folder" in thy computer and fap to that.. that will lead to NTR destruction.
     
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    Indiboy Well Known boi

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    Use instinct
     
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    Opjohnaexe Well-Known Member

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    Well you try really, that's about all you can do, noone can with 100% certainty define whether or not another person is sincere or incinsere in all cases, though in most cases as long as you've been exposed to a decent amount of social interactions you'll learn it naturally, not conciously, but it'll happend in your subconcious.
     
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    Amaruna Myu ugly squid dokja (●´∀`●)

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    Face reality. There' no such thing as sincerity.
     
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    Lswarmruler 『Anya, The Cutest Esper Loli』《Spy x Family Manga》

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    Emm, u need to learn how to read people thought to know whether they are sincere or not. No other way. As any people nowadays could be a hypocrite inside...
     
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    Get someone opinion 1 or 2 person about that "sincerity"and choose the wise ones.
     
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    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    Sincerity only goes so far though, they might want to be there but can't due to life happening or you might not let them know well enough or at all and they don't even know what you need from them. Just because someone feels like people aren't there for them (which is a sign of depression and similar issues sometimes) doesn't mean people around them don't care or are insincere.
     
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    Lucresia Well-Known Member

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    Time is what is needed to judge someone. You can only judge someone once you spend some time around them. I know some people that are pretty nice but I wouldn't really want to really be around them all the time. One of them is pretty loud and always interrupt when another person talks while the other always trys to correct you for the most part they are good people. For tsundere do the even exist outside of manga/anime?
     
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    Pfft
     
  20. Dravileo

    Dravileo Imofever never end

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    I hope tsundere is real.
    I dont know but you can feel it, look around them. I always sit on the corner of class.
     
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