Question What should l do...

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  1. Robbini

    Robbini Logical? Illogical? Random? Or Just Unique?

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    >6 years of being friends
    >She left when confessed to and told you to stay away
    >Then wants to break up from which relationship?

    Either there's some serious misunderstandings for either or both of you, or she's freaked out by your sudden impulse and subsequent behavior or she needs time to consider it, or you're friendzoned.
     
  2. Viator

    Viator [Cult of Pyoo: Pyoo's Oak Tree]

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    don't push too hard. Let her know there is an open line of communication on your side, but that is it for now.
     
  3. Raneday

    Raneday Not Rane

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    couldn't agree more
     
  4. Elawn

    Elawn 『Binge Reader』

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    Man and here I thought I was complicated.
     
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    xluferx [The writer who writes for fun][Meme lord]

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    You should do what every xianxia MC does, **** her
     
  6. nuubman

    nuubman Russia greatest love machine !

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    if everything fails then you can tread the path of wizardhood with me and many more:cookie::sushi_cool::sushi_cool:
     
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    Vanidor Well-Known Member

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    You are either an idiot or an idiot troll. You are an idiot if you have a crush for 6 years without doing anything. And if it's a troll then it's even more stupid since none of the respondents really care, they are just bored and free.

    You have to properly troll them about something they care about like their favorite WN/LN being abandoned or cancelled.
     
  8. Ogami-kun

    Ogami-kun 『Blue Shadow ensnaring demons』『FA sect disciple』

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    Wait for god sake! It is creepy! and If I say that only reading your message.
    Probably she is seriously thinking what to say to you.
    Either because she don't know if she want to accept, or she don't want to ruin your present relationship with her saying no.
    So WAIT. Even if it is painful.
    She might want to forget about the confession so that you can return being friends.
     
  9. admira

    admira Dino Pirate

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    Don't rush her, seriously. I've been in a situation similar to hers, where a friend suddenly asked me out to dinner. It's pretty awkward, especially when you don't like them in the same way. The texting, emailing, messaging, etc. is just going to make her feel pressured, which is probably why she lashed out at you. She needs time to think about how she feels and her relationship with you.

    If you confessed and asked to start dating, that's the same as demanding an immediate change in your relationship. If she agrees, she's committed to a relationship with you. If she refuses, she's turned you down and your relationship will probably get pretty awkward. People usually go on a few dates before making the decision to commit to the "dating" status.

    And try not to freak out on her so much; based on what I'm reading, you're coming across as hysterical and desperate in a bad way. You should apologize for pressuring her (even if you don't feel you're wrong, she's obviously fed up with you) and ask to meet in person--during the day, in a public place. "I'm sorry for badgering you, I'm just very nervous. Can we meet for lunch to talk?" -- something like that.

    Good luck.
     
  10. yotae

    yotae Drunkard Emperor

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  11. Sourceofchaos

    Sourceofchaos Well-Known Member

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    She just texting me and said yes as long as l can accept doing LDR with her
     
  12. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    LDR as in long distance relationship = her excuse for not seeing you?
     
  13. Sourceofchaos

    Sourceofchaos Well-Known Member

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    Maybe yes or maybe not after all her collage outside the town
     
  14. Flamemaster

    Flamemaster [TheCakeIsALie][LordOfTheDivineFlame][ThePinkPuff]

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    should've read Martial Arts Master, girls don't like instant confessions.
     
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