Discussion Is gender equality means woman can leaves her responsibility as wife and mother?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by adislt, Apr 8, 2018.

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  1. Nyamsus

    Nyamsus Life is full of shit and we live in it

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    let's start by making equality possible between people then gender equality can be done
     
  3. Jigoku Shounen

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    Is that "gender equality" or bad "family problem"?
     
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    As a woman, I have to say this. Once you give birth to a child, one has the moral obligation to care for that child, whether it's physically, emotionally, financially, etc. However, don't you think the husband/father has the same obligation. If the woman is neglecting her child, that's another story, but she does (as does her husband) has the duty to care for the life they brought into the world. Females, however, should not need to solely carry all that obligation, and I think that's where they're coming from.
     
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    It's wrong for a mother not to take care of her children, period. But don't forget that it's the same for fathers. It goes both ways.
     
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    a parent that can be with you constantly sounds great, but if you starve to death cause they don't work, then would you call them great parents?
    I don't really see an issue here tbh. if she isn't spending time with the husband, then the relationship is flawed on both ends. If it can't get fixed, terminate it. As for the child, that's more complicated. Societal demands aside, it's ultimately her choice what she invests her time in. Like I said earlier, we don't know the motive. She may be trying to earn more so that their child could live a happier life. Also, the husband can spend time with the child if he wanted to. if the parents are ignoring the child altogether, then they're shit. otherwise...it's a grey area.
     
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    Ehm i can see your point, but if you don't mind can you give your view or opinions why some if not most women use gender equality as argument when faced the said problem or demand, before thst sorry if this reply somehow insulted you i just really curious because like ibsaid that's the very first counter argument i see or heard whenever career woman face the said problem
     
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    Again, it requires the perfect confluence of situations as well for a great parent. Further, a parent who is with you constantly may be hindering your growth and development. It's all quite complex and there are way too many factors that go into it.

    But the vast majority of parents aren't great. Somewhat more aren't good. Most probably fall somewhere around the average mark.
     
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    I had a reply but deleted it because this is too objective. Nothing is ever perfect. It could always be better, but resources are finite.
     
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    btw, just wondering, how many women do you know that use that excuse? or have seen use that excuse. Don't use many or most. try being numerical.

    I was agreeing with you kek. if only people learned how to be average parents before becoming parents. crime would drop, lives saves, maybe even the pop reduced...
     
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    hello fellow country cat
    that just simple excuse similar with when men on family asked by women to also look after their child/children
    ~sorry too busy with work~
     
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    Don't worry I'm not offended. As for why females use that's as their first argument, I'm not absolutely sure. From my viewpoint though, it can get rather irksome when people think you're a horrible person when you're not meeting these set of standards and expectations. These set of expectations(such as caring for the child or staying at home) is not placed on males, and females do find it rather unfair. Like I said previously, I think both parents/spouse have the same moral and legal obligation to care for the child. How they do it? Well that depends on them.

    Edit: if they're completely neglecting their child, then they're probably trying to find a upper ground excuse
     
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    Don't think that was related to gender equality. The same could(not saying it would) happen to a home of a single parent.
    Growing up both my parents work from 7 to 6 and we do have a caretaker. But my siblings and i grow normally. Relationship with parents are within normal.
    Bad parenting is just bad parenting. No need to blame gender equality. Be it male, female or apache helicopter.
     
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    You sound like a neanderthal.
    Gender equality means that BOTH the father and mother take care of the child.
    Both take care of the house. For example both cook the food.
    Both can go to work. Both can stay home.
    Both earn the same amount of money for the same type of work.
    If she sometimes makes a sandwich for you. You sometime makes a sandwich for her. Equal.
     
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    For numerical value if heard you can say in 10 career woman i know around 4 or 5 but that mainly because the rest do their job from home but if you ask of women older than me than it's nonethe case i said is of my friends that arpund my age
    If we count from what i read or watch from web it will be too big but also undependable at the same time
    Btw my age is around twenty
     
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    Ehh, Definition of equality these days was confusing. It was very subjective subject.

    If parents wanted to have great family, they should have talk it using many factors like money and time. Not 'gender equality' or 'women should be home' shit.
     
  19. Green Apple

    Green Apple Actually I'm secretly an orange.

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    Use "Fallacy card" then. If something is used as an excuse it doesn't void the problem
     
  20. Parth37955

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    :facepalm: your culture is dealing with industrialization. don't trust the internet, you don't know the full story. 4-5 people does not reflect the whole of the culture.
     
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