Yeah, you aren't very funny at all. I mean, it's a difference in environment. I like being denigrated by Alea while I'm in bed, not by anyone else, not at any other moment. Alea even scolded me at one point in which I denigrated myself in front of her as a joke when we were already done... It feels bad, it's a lot different if you aren't having sex. It's very releasing if done in the right way though~