[Poll] If your best friend confesses to you...

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If your best friend confessed to you...

  1. Our relationship wouldn't be negatively impacted regardless of the gender of my friend

    37 vote(s)
    40.7%

  2. Our relationship would be negatively impacted more if my friend was the same sex

    23 vote(s)
    25.3%

  3. Our relationship would be negatively impacted more if my friend was the other sex

    7 vote(s)
    7.7%

  4. Our relationship would be equally negatively impacted regardless of the gender of my friend

    24 vote(s)
    26.4%
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  1. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    Part A. If your best friend romantically confesses to you, and you don’t like them, are you able to remain friends with them after you turn them down? Note: assume they are willing to stay as just friends.

    Part B. Does it make a difference if your friend is:
    • Same sex as you (homosexual)
    • Other sex (heterosexual)

    Part C. In what ways would your friendship/relationship change if you tried to remain just friends?
     
    lychee, May 16, 2018
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  2. Master

    Master [Old Pervert] [Grandmaster]

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    Tbh I'd tell him to fk off

    Now... if it was my best friend from high school. I'd be down cus she is mighty fine
     
    Master, May 16, 2018
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  3. HavekZero

    HavekZero A well meaning, contributing member of this forum

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    I'd turn him down.

    As much as he wishes I'm not gay.
    Not to mention I'm way outta his league.

    Fuckwad should get a mirror.
     
    HavekZero, May 16, 2018
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  4. Suijin

    Suijin Blood God [Medic]

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    A. or so I think
     
    Suijin, May 16, 2018
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  5. Mnotia

    Mnotia The Trash Man

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    I confessed to my "Best Friend" of 4 years........I got rejected and then we drifted apart because she didn't want to hangout that much because she thought it would've been awkward....

    ALL WE EVER DID WAS SKIP CLASS AND READ MANGA AT THE BACK OF THE SCHOOL!!
     
    Mnotia, May 16, 2018
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  6. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    We're both straight males so i'd say it depends on how good he is at making sandwiches.
     
    elengee, May 16, 2018
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  7. Nathan

    Nathan Not-staving graduate

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    As another best friend who confessed. I got turned down.
     
    Nathan, May 16, 2018
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  8. Kagutsuchi

    Kagutsuchi 『Omnipresent Reader』

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    I would tell him/her to calm down and after that, treat him/her annoyingly friendly till we become best-friends again and the awkward moment is forgotten.
     
    Kagutsuchi, May 16, 2018
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  9. Eolan

    Eolan Totally serious poster

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    Well, I voted negative impact if other sex since OP reminded me with this post that I`ve never had a lasting friendship with someone of different sex. Thank you for that.
     
    Eolan, May 16, 2018
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  10. Jigoku Shounen

    Jigoku Shounen An Envoy From Hell

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    Never has this....so-called "Best Friend", so........who knows:blobneutral:
     
    Jigoku Shounen, May 16, 2018
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  11. Simon

    Simon [The Pure One's Chief Steward][Demon Beast]

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    Depends on if I have feelings for them as well, I don't want to give someone the hope it would work out.

    If it's a guy, only if he's passable in a dress.
     
    Simon, May 16, 2018
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  12. Drake98

    Drake98 Concerned Fan

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    When child, you all shota. You all trap. So You ARE a trap :D
     
    Drake98, May 16, 2018
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  13. gauthamc

    gauthamc [Dao of the Lonely Island]

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    First thought I had when I saw the title was if he confessed to killing someone. I'd help bury the body and cover the evidance. Not that I had any experience :whistle::whistle:
     
    gauthamc, May 16, 2018
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  14. asriu

    asriu fu~ fu~ fu~

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    such thing is impossible to happen to me
    cuz my best friends are on overseas and both already have kids~
    no but or if
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    ha! this cat beyond it~
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    asriu, May 16, 2018
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  15. sealteam14

    sealteam14 Your friendly HI3 SEA monkey farmer

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    Me...
    I'll read their body language. If it is unussual in a good way, i'll take it( but ain't cross the line if it Homo, hetero... i'll give it some times to consider both pros & cons). If in a bad way or just blunt out fake, then HELL NO, F*CK OFF!
    Is it that simple?
     
    sealteam14, May 16, 2018
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  16. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    oh that's sweet of you
     
    lychee, May 16, 2018
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  17. Legion_Harbinger_of_Souls

    Legion_Harbinger_of_Souls Well-Known Member

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    I think I'd be more shocked than anything considering he knows how much I enjoy 2d girl and Henri, but I'd honestly probably reject him, considering I'm not homosexual, as for how our relationship would change? I would try to see past that, whether he wants to or not is up to him
     
    Legion_Harbinger_of_Souls, May 16, 2018
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  18. Yukkuri Oniisan

    Yukkuri Oniisan 『Procrastinator Archwizard Translator and Writer』

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    I wish I could answer this...

    But Boku wa Tomodachi ga Sukunai...
     
    Yukkuri Oniisan, May 16, 2018
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  19. justmehere

    justmehere Well-Known Member

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    Friendzone alert....
     
    justmehere, May 16, 2018
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  20. Amaruna Myu

    Amaruna Myu ugly squid dokja (●´∀｀●)

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    Yeah... What is a best friend... O_O
     
    Amaruna Myu, May 16, 2018
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