Recommendations female MC in someones harem

i would like to know if there are any novels out that focus on a female mc that is in a harem of some pervy wish fulfillment male. i would love to know whats going through their minds.

 

Dreamer in the spring boudoir
Mc gets transmigrated into novel she is reading where ml has a harem

 

Remember reading the summary of a novel where a male MC is transmigrated to another world into the body of a female elf who ends up in the harem of some other transmigrated person who ends up being a hero or something. A review did say there was ecchi stuff but it was more focused on the comedy aspect. So if you’re okay with gender bender you can try this one, sadly I don’t remember the name. Anyone remember what this novel is?

Edit: just saw that gender bender tag you out so I guess you’d like this novel.

 

Try these two:
To Be A Virtuous Wife
Empress with no Virtue

 

If you don't mind manga, then you're in luck: this just came out! It's a meta take on the harem/rom-com genre.

 

A Mistaken Marriage Match: Mysteries in the Imperial Harem - ancient china, finished
TS Reincarnated as the Sub Heroine - this one is gender bender but the translator dropped it recently