That moment when you realize how dense you are when it comes to yorself

EXPLOSION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Yeah same here and I don't think what he wrote will work in Japan.

 

Nah, more like my way, which is weirdass conservative. No wonder I don't have a Significant Other yet. Either that or because I ugly and broke af.

 

Like what other said, broes before hoes

 

There is something very simple : at the first occasion, express how much you dislike unfaithful people, or simply unfaithful actions. Invent some exemple of unknown people and tell her in your story, you think the girl shouldn't flirt with taken guys and/or that she should make sure she is single before flirting or expressing stuff towards another man.
Then, you just wait and see if she leaves the guy. If she does, it means you count for her. If she doesn't, it means she's just an insecure b1tch who's afraid to be alone, and you simply caught her fancy this time.

Cuz remember : once cheater - cheater forever. You don't want that to happen to you if she ends up with you...

Good luck bro.

 

That girl ain't loyal and too thirsty lol.
Better stay away if you want to avoid drama. But I guess trying to ask your friend about his girlfriend through beer as advice above. Either way, if your not into her, stay away or reject her properly. It would leave bad feeling dating someones lover anyway. If your not into adultery (ㆆ_ㆆ)

 

Ah god. That's true.

Want to, kind of hard when it's the girl that approached me and I'm not the guy who say no means no

LOL THIS MIGHT BE TRUE

Spice always make foods better

In truth though, I'm only a bit interested in the girl (she's really a beauty), but I'm knowledgeable enough to not trust somebody that do this kind instantly. And I'm not interested with cucking my best friend, nor threesome, if that's what she's aiming for

 

i don't think you can be dense if the girl has a BF

 

Be honest, if it's 2G1B you do it right?

 

Honestly, I'd never imagine a friend's boyfriend is trying to hit on me, so my reaction would probably be similar to yours.

Like, seriously, if you're dating, then don't try to involve others in your relationship... End the relationship first if you really want to go after someone else, that's just common sense to me~

 

Lol

 

Yeah, that's probably what I'm going to do next time I see her, need some proper talk to clear things up. Fortunately my friend seems like hasn't caught up yet, which is helped by how dense he is.

Ps though, I'm 100% sure my friend haven't done that kind of thing, and the girl in my opinion is actually a pretty nice behaved girl. She helped other people alot, and studied alot too. Never seen her hanging with bad girls either. I guess something is just not really working with their relationship, and the girl just fell on me since she think I'm reliable or something. I'm a bit interested in the girl but definitely not worth losing my best friend for.

Nice idea, didn't thought of that, thanks!

This sounds embarassing, but I can't drink. Still a bit under 20 in Japan here ~('.'~)

 

Dude you have no obligations to know what's on people minds. Simply put with common sense and politeness would be okay unless it was one demanding bosses. Return her good with good and be friendly and polite. You're fine.
I had the same problems with young wife next door but as someone else have point out here she's simply doing out of her goodwill.

 

Bring a voice recorder when you talk to her.. In case of Misunderstandings and Drama

 

Is she can do this to her bf then she can and will do this to u later on

 

You might be reading too much into it.

Personally I keep my distance from my friend's girl. It is how I like it. If we meet, we meet together with him. I am just not comfortable otherwise.

Talking to her won't result in a good thing. She hasn't even explained her intentions. She can say that she's disgusted that you even thought of this. Even if she was doing, exactly that. So you don't talk to her until things are made clear by her. If she's talking indirectly, you reply firmly and indirectly.

Just keep your distance. I am not saying to avoid her like plague. Just call your friend if she insists on meeting you, have a meet up together. Praise your friend. Tell your friend to bring her gifts.

That's my take.

 

If your culture is anything like it is over here, that's not a major issue, it's a minor issue, because there's parties and the likes where minors bring their alcohol to and adults who're willing to purchase for minors etc.

Though the alcohol legal age is 18 here, not 20, so it might be a bit different, but it should still be possible.

And personally, I have sensitive tastebuds, so I can't stand a variety of tastes, including alcohol, so that's not really experienced advice from me, but based on a few encounters and drunk people in general

 

Imma just say this.................WHAT IN THE HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!

First ask her if shes trying to flirt with you. If she says yes, tell her you don't see her like that and then tell your friend about it.

BROS BEFORE HOES

 

Bro Code Rule 1