Resolved Friendzoned

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  1. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    So uhh. I posted a thread a while ago asking if I got friendzoned/brozoned. I manned up my self and confessed my feelings in what I can say a nice way. Sadly , I got friend zoned. And In a nice way too. I think. She said even in the past she treated me as a friend and even bro. And she can't sacrifice our friendship.and in the confession I wrote, even if she rejected me, all will be the same. Still friends, nothing's gonna happen. But deym. Everytime I message her, I feel , how do I explain this feeling. I feel hurt. Still feel the pain. Should I continue messaging her and still be friends with her? And hope that someday she'll realize my worth? Or just move on? And stp messaging her? What should I do?
    Ps. She's single
     
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  2. SoulZer0

    SoulZer0 Heaven Refining

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    Keep being her friend, dude. Don't give up just because she friendzoned you! Keep going strong, things will change.

    You go dude. Be with her more than ever. Just be open to her about your feeling. No need to be shy, there's no turning back! She already knew how you feel.
     
  3. Vudoodude

    Vudoodude Well-Known Member

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    It's up to you on what you want to do next, whether it is to keep hanging on or to look for someone new, but just make sure you do things that won't make you regret it later. My advice would be, there is no problems with being friends - as long as you can be open-minded about your feelings. Keep your options open, even if she'll never come around, you can always look for other people. Nowhere does it say you can't be friends with her and look for a new person to like/date
     
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  4. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    Ughh. Thanks
     
  5. Nightow1

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    There is always someone for us if we are looking. If she said no, then it's obvious she's not the one. That does not mean cut all contact, she might not be your lover but does that make her any less of your friend even after you asked? What has changed other than you knowing she's not looking for a lover? Does that change her basic character that made you friends in the first place?

    Just friendzone her too and look for someone that is looking.
     
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  6. Blitz

    Blitz ⛈️ awakened from the reverie❄️

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    Still, be friends since a good friend worth it even if its a bit awkward. However move on, what's happened has happened.
     
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    Lazriser Well-Known Member

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    Accept the friend-zone, but wait for the tension and awkwardness between you to calm down. If you're willing, and she's giving hints, then retry confession again for the second and last time. If second confession does not work, at least you still have a friend.
     
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  8. Frozen ink

    Frozen ink Legally had harem『Cathulu』Power of Love & Evil』

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    1 either push harder or give up and find someone who will love you simple as that desu
     
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  9. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    Yess. Thank you.:notworthy:
     
  10. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    Thanks mate. this is helpful
     
  11. Arbalest

    Arbalest Arcane Knight Anti Mage Honeytrap Devourer

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    It seems like lady luck wasn't on your side that day dude(n), but still keep being friends with her maybe one day you can be her friend with benefits :p
     
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  12. zhainan2157

    zhainan2157 『Villager No.2157』『Kawaii Connoisseur』

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    Don’t follow my advice because it’s probably horrible, but in some anime/manga and novels, they say hatred breeds love right? So make her hate you I guess? Because maybe that’s the only way to get out of friend zone.

    Like I said don’t follow my shitty advice...
     
  13. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    Lol absolutely not:blobjoy:
     
  14. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    Hahaha I like this one.:sneaky:
     
  15. Titan LLS

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    People want the desirable. if she said no and you rather remain as friends then what most everyone here said is valid. if you find a platonic friendship isn't enough you have to become more, at least until it is hard to impossible for her to romantically overlook you. you do then you are bound to find what you are looking for even if not with her.
     
  16. The Hamster Overlord

    The Hamster Overlord Mad scientist/Revered wizard/Alleged antichrist

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    Why, she's been your friend for so long and why stop msgn' her just because she fz'd you? Time heals all, but friendship is really worth a lot.
     
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  17. sokmean

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    Just give up my dude I try tell my crush who I am friend with for a year but she friendzone me but I keep trying for 2 year and nothing happen and I feel hurt and depress just stop it.just realize she don’t like you don’t think that you have a chance if you do you keep trying and when you fall you gonna fall hard. And it hurt for a long time and it hurt.She friend with you awhile if she like she like you.if she don’t like she don’t like. Just try to love yourself. If you want to try be my guess. Hay if you do it and fail just try to better yourself I am very hurt so I don’t someone be hurt like me.
     
  18. Suijin

    Suijin Blood God [Medic]

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    NEVER
    TRUST
    SOMEONE
    WHO
    SAYS
    THAT
    BULLSHIT
    .
    THEY
    LIE
     
  19. reagents 11

    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    Man up and get into position for second wave of attacks.
     
  20. Lord Ainzzz

    Lord Ainzzz Well-Known Member

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    Ugghhh.this one seems legit. Fvk. Learned the hard way eh?
     
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