Alright, so here I am in Korea attending a class of students trying to learn Korean. There is this one woman in my class who I'm "mildly" acquainted with and consider attractive (no questions about that please). So I spotted she had brought lunch to class (unusual for anyone since lunch break is short) and ask what it was. She promptly offered me a bite and held out a piece with her own chopsticks. I ate it without thinking much about it after realized that it was slightly inappropriate (indirect kiss and all not to mention hygiene) though she did not seem to mind. As we are both in mid-20s (hence adults) add in the fact my romance life is as dry as the Sahara after a long drought I need advice. Should I consider it as a sign to engage romantically, or do i accept the fact that this all was a simple oversight? Also, I am halfway to wasted which means I will probably not remember this when i am sober.
Also, please no advice from the Novel Forum family, I don't trust them. Even they don't trust themselves.
If it is a sign: ExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplodeExplode If it isn't a sign: It's nice to meet you, my fellow no love-lifer.
If I were you, I'd take the time to get to know her better. After a while, you might pick up more clues on what should happen next.
That’s all? You may overthinking but if you want going out with her just give it a try, at least she don’t have a negative opinion of you.
Don't expect too much, it might just be a kind gesture If you really wanna know and want to play it safe ask her out for a dinner date or something or YOLO Route: Confess to her and ask her out with the prospect of having a relationship.
Lol so true. Now i am jealous too. Best advice i think. It's too early to know if she is interested in you or not. Normally i would advice you to wait for her to confess if she is interested (too bad if she is not) but there are some people out there (and in NUF) that somehow didn't get romance because they couldn't see the signs Females gave off. So i got no idea beside waiting. AAAH ! Maybe .... hmmmm hard choice... a stupid move would be to ask if she considers it an indirect kiss or not OR if the indirect kiss thingy exist in Korea.
Btw... i wonder from where the "Riajuus/Normies, go explode !" actually came from... Most likely 2chan but still curious.
Well you can guess all you want just dont do something that will ruin all. As long she doesnt move you have time to get to Know her.
Maybe you can ask her for lunch together if it your first attempt dont forget to bring othet people, and get to know her better
I just know once I'm sober again I'm either going to die of embarrassment or stealthy remove this thread. And with those thoughts i know I am not wasted enough time to get more.
As American that doesn't sound like anything. Indirect kisses weren't even a thing in my mind until I started watching anime, had shared bottles and utensils with others (guys and girls) all the time. If she's trying to engage in conversation and be around you often or offers to make one for you as well I'd say that's more suggesting interest than sharing chopsticks.
Well I think u need to observe her more. If she offers food for everyone that means she's just being kind. And also, u can ask her on a date because u 'owe' her food, so u want to repay her kindness or whatever. (If she accepts, then she somewhat likes u at least)
ehh.. tbh, its better not to rush on things. slowly get to know her first. there might be a few reasons, some you've already pointed out. i mean you guys are in mid 25, its not a big deal for some (indirect kissing). get to know her, sooner or later you'd discover if its a big thing for her or not.
"She" might not be a she, you know( remembers the horror of a short makeup video on memecenter of an old man getting "fixed up" to look like a baby faced beautiful girl). Troll jokes aside, I don't know man. Do you know anything about her? Physical attraction is a nice start, but have you got any common interest fuel to keep the flames alive?