Discussion Girl greets me in restaurant

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  1. CyberCypher

    CyberCypher Air Breather

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    why would they want my fingers:blobastonished:
     
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    Why you want to check if she is a high school girl? Aren’t you overreacting?
     
  3. Rivenn

    Rivenn 【I eat fruit】【commonhouseman】【RV_n/Rivelle】

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    could be a casual greeting.
    not returning a greeting is rude
    won't hurt to greet back, just make it vague to be safe. like a small nod

    happens to me sometimes.
    tho the other party is usually a baby tho
     
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  4. Ixcez

    Ixcez Intergalactic Xanthic Custom Error Zone

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    Having been there myself I can tell you that the call girls are very forward especially in the evening. So she was probably not one of them like some has commented.

    Also the ppl there are very polite sp saying hello or good bye is not that unusual.

    If for instance you stand still and look at a map I kid you not that someone will come forward and ask if you want help (usually it’s because they are helpfull and want to practice speaking english).

    Also if you go clubbing and girls eyes seems to be almost popping out thats the signal they are interested in you (at least it was the flirt signal two years ago freaked me out at first).

    Last tip, not sure if it’s still the same but when I was there I was sternly warned from getting serious with any girls since a lot of them are treated poorly and wants to leave and get a green card some where else. Not sure how true it ever was but we did hear from some female friends studying there that bad treatment or at least old fashioned treatment of females was common.

    All in all have fun dude and if you know japanese cudos to you, since at least my impression was that foreigners were/are very popular over there.

    Awkward incidence was that all the guys at the bathrooms in clubs would bend over to check our packages, worst incidence was a guy grabbing my groin at the bar and asking for sexy time in the bathroom :sick:
     
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  5. Lazriser

    Lazriser Well-Known Member

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    You're Japanese? As only natives could be identified as otakus, the rest are weebs.
    If some female stranger waved at me, and I did not misunderstand. I would be skeptic and be cautious, because reasons.
    Also... did you seriously just admit that every girl, no matter the species or age, is a serious event for you? You need help, or better yet, you need a friend, or a best friend, and possibly a girlfriend (for rent).
     
  6. Bakaturq

    Bakaturq Tell me, what do you see?

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    Unfortunately, most of the time, it's the g(a)uys who compliment you
     
  7. Maid Chan

    Maid Chan [Professional]

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    Hi OP! I am the one who waved at you in the restaurant. Remember me? What are we gonna name our first kid?
     
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  8. Bakaturq

    Bakaturq Tell me, what do you see?

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    Aisha(greyrat) :blobokhand:
     
  9. Silver Snake

    Silver Snake Magician of NUF|Show-off|Awkward|Genius

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    All casually friendly girls should die.
     
  10. Living Dream

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    Smoke enough weed and eventually it'll look like everyone's giving you a glance.
     
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    oddly enough ,it does sometimes start out that simple.
     
  12. OnceandFutureLurker

    OnceandFutureLurker Well-Known Member

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    if that was actually the case :blobpopcorn: , perhaps you should go for it :blob_pompom::blob_pompom::blob_pompom::blob_pompom::blob_pompom::blob_pompom:
     
  13. RebirthofNovel

    RebirthofNovel Well-Known Member

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    I think I understood.
    I wore my office clothes white shirt and black trouser.
    This is same as school uniform in japan for males.
    I might have looked little young, so she might have assumed I am student or University guy and greeted me.
     
  14. AliceShiki

    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    Uhn... Dunno, if I were to share a table with anyone, I usually say "excuse me" before sitting down and say "bye" when I get up or the other person gets up... Just feels like common courtesy to me.

    I think you're heavily overthinking this.
     
  15. Jojo775

    Jojo775 Honorary Algae Knight

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    What's the point? What you should've done? Nothing as it seems you're older than high schoolers and she has just mistaken you for another person. You're making it seem as if she winked at you and said hey stud while expecting you to make a move on her.