How do you lead a good conversation?

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  1. VOLX98

    VOLX98 Well-Known Member

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    I noticed that, when I use too many smiles, admins call me a trolling clone.
    They have a point about this argument. Such posts could be regarded as "no quality" posts
    It is reasonable for mods to lock "no quality" threads.

    Recently I tried to learn from my Clan mates how a good conversation has to be.
    When I read them exchanging thoughts, it was really fun to read.

    So I have some ideas. If you write short, bundled sentences, it is good. If they are funny, it is the best.

    So these are my observations. What do you think about this topic? Let's share and discuss this!

    Summon @ForumObserver maybe?
     
  2. akki

    akki [Ani's C☕ffee-mate #3] [Shady Merchant]

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    No idea. Sometimes conversations just happen and it's fun. Other times it fizzles out.
     
  3. Lucinia

    Lucinia Baby turtles are the Overlords of cuteness *_*

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    uselessno4 Not so useless human

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    Sometime it just happen
     
  5. VOLX98

    VOLX98 Well-Known Member

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    What do you mean, when you say "fizzle out" ? When they are sudden, they are sometimes awesome.
    So it can not be controlled?

    this is quite the starter line. It pulls in people, who love cute things....
    baby turtles are the best. Let's eat some
     
  6. EpicJay

    EpicJay <Nostalgia>

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    It's going to vary based on persons involved, format used for communication and the setting. You're less likely to crack a joke at your boss through a business call than you are through Facebook.
    Personally I've found that being wity is generally applicable as long as you aren't snide and maintain standards of professionalism.
     
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    This is why I hate society..
    You even have to think before actually post/said something..
     
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    VOLX98 Well-Known Member

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    Well, I wanna learn, because I am bad at convo. So you hate me for this? Or you hate people in general? Because sometimes I do, too..
     
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    runsing status : bleeding, health -10/s Novel Updates Staff

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    you need a ****dere partner for 'good' conversation. if you're lucky, you can get stab too
    @Mimi
     
  10. akki

    akki [Ani's C☕ffee-mate #3] [Shady Merchant]

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    It depends on who you're talking to and what the conversation is about. Some people know how to keep it going so it's fun. But there are times when you talk to someone who gives short answers or answers to which there's not much you can reply with. It loses its momentum and the conversation dies
     
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    moevora [Ero Peach]

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    eh? why'do it lead to that.. r8.. --", I said I hate society > life > myself
    It's actually fun interacting with other people..
    but, sometimes it's a pain to keep in contact or think about what to avoid when talk/convers (the taboo)
     
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    VOLX98 Well-Known Member

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    So this is my problem. When I answer with "yes" or "no". I am actually a convo killer.
    I better say something wity and then I need to find a fitting topic or clever questions?
     
  13. akki

    akki [Ani's C☕ffee-mate #3] [Shady Merchant]

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    That's one thing that can kill it. If you reply like that it means the other person has to keep it going. Instead of just saying yes or no you could ask a question back as well. Or expand on why you said yes/no
     
  14. VOLX98

    VOLX98 Well-Known Member

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    I leave now to meet my new boss at the hospital. If I am lucky, she will hire me.
    Thanks for replying!
    Wish me luck guys!
     
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    Good luck!
    Also, for NUF just be yourself. And with the outside world, everything but yourself. I'm actually kidding with that, but as a person who leads double lives with otaku-ism and normalcy, I know it's difficult keeping a a facade. So don't. Then people will open up to you, because you're real...I guess...
     
  16. Miyuu

    Miyuu ☆Innocent & Harmless☆The most normal☆『WW Vet.』

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    Why would you go around searching how to hold a proper conversation~?
    This is internet~ basically you can say whatever the shit you want, whenever you want to~ isn't that why forum like these are made~ to talk about things freely without any restrictions~
    So if you want to howl, then just howl~ rest assured there'll be a bunch wolves howling together with you~ some may even meow~ and that's how conversation in the wilds are made~
     
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    Miyuu ☆Innocent & Harmless☆The most normal☆『WW Vet.』

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    well~ well~ I might just stab you right now without even having to hold any conversation~ know why? cuz I.hate.you!
    (*˘︶˘*).。.:*♡
     
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    EnerHighwave Holy Daugther of Kyuu 8❤️ Speedy's pet Lovely's ❤️

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    IRL may work if u have crazy friends
     
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    *nod nod*
     
  20. VOLX98

    VOLX98 Well-Known Member

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    You can talk here freely, but you can't open threads freely and post replys freely.
    There are actually some rules on NUF. I have to try so hard to not get banned, because of my lazy personality. *laughs awkwardly and averts eyes*

    By the way panda-kun, this is the second part of your thread "How to start a conversation?".
    I made part 2 "How to lead a conversation?"
    Let's work on our next project soon panda-kun! Part 3 = ?
    And the boss said, I can maybe start to work in the hospital soon. I will be the dude, who cleanse dirty clothes and stuff and helps to fill everthing with clean clothes. *laughs heartily*