How do you get over heartbreak

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  1. Ashley123

    Ashley123 Your senior

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    You go to “personal details”, scroll down, and you’ll see “custom title”

    Your kohai is alive!
     
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    Red_ ◆The Lazy One◆

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    That I see and a heartbreak? What is this addition >∆> who do I have to kill?
     
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    It will take a few minutes before you see the custom title..
     
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    This random dude I met
     
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    Cutter Masterson Well-Known Super-Soldier

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    Talking is always good. Releasing the hurt and sadness held in your heart. Will lessen the burden on your shoulders. Watch movies, eating good food and exercising will help you through this trying time.
    During my heartache I tried to forget her by dating multiple women. Women I had no interest in. I was seeing three of them at the same time. They weren’t even that attractive. They we’re okay. I don’t recommend this route. I recommend long walks or swimming.
    Whatever happens know that their is someone out there just waiting for you. Don’t close your heart because of one guy. Their are over 5 billion guys in the world and another 5 billion women if your okay with that route. So your one true love is out there somewhere. I’m sure of it.
    All I can say is that it will get better. After a long cry. Pick yourself up and face the world. Prove to your ex he made a huge mistake leaving you. Tilt your head up and steady your eyes. This was just a passing memory and doesn’t define you. Hold on to your courage and hope. Never think that anything was your fault. All you can do is move forward. Once you start it will become easier. Don’t live in fear. You have only one life to live. So live it. There is nothing holding you back. Free yourself and see the beauty of the horizon. You have unlimited possibilities. Set your dreams free.
    I’m cheering for you. Good luck.
     
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  6. Kylarin

    Kylarin Prinny

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    Cry! Work out! Eat your greens! Hang out with friends and have a goal to work towards to!
    Nothing can stop you then!
     
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    Have you tried get isekai'd? Seems to be a common trend these days to escape from your problems.
     
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    Did you attach the love to yourself? Do you accept that you felt Love? These things can be eternal depending on how you see that feeling inside of yourself you need to accept and change slowly your mind and your feelings, if the love its true its not someone that will magically show up to replace it its more like you have to find a way to take it away from yourself you already took the step to remove the person from your life now you need the time and to feel the pain of slowly erase such feeling from yourself, this should not be that hard in this case if the relationship was toxic the acceptance that it would not work out because the other person would keep hurting her will surely help
     
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    simdimdim Well-Known Member ,「Degenerate」

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    Imho. The best way to get over heartbreak is to do math problems.

    If you become calculative enough there's no space for love left to fill the gaps, for there ain't any left.

    Curiously you didn't come to ask an ex for advice, I'd think I'd have some experience with the subject :blobhero:

    Kind reminder how people remember things better: the more they think about them.
    If you believe there's something left to solve, then solve it, if you don't, just throw the topic out of your mind (or your mind out of the topic). Be calculative?

    Alternatively, just go to bed with a good novel or marathon a soppy tv series of your choice. (TV Is known to turn people positively brainless after all, that will leave you with nothing to worry about)
     
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    I mean, it’s kinda awkward asking your ex xD
     
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    simdimdim Well-Known Member ,「Degenerate」

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    Hm, maybe, but asking an amourphous cloud of internet stranges is not as effective imho.
    The answers relevance is important to one's personal feelings in this case, without it, even with some rly good advice, one can't relate or apply it to him\herself successfully, isn't that why we rely on friends insituatinos like that. They supposedly know us better than others.
     
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    Time heals all wounds
    duh!
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    That's why i don't start relationship even if it's mutual if my mind is unstable xd.
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  15. Ushiyama Tatsuma

    Ushiyama Tatsuma Devilish Judoka • Big Breeder ☆

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    Lmao you really like that emote don't you!
     
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    Silver Snake Magician of NUF|Show-off|Awkward|Genius

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    I'm assuming by this date you are still not over him.

    Okay, so here's the thing. Sure, he was immature, but you were a little bit, what's the word, extreme as well. He suggested you guys stay friends, but you take that as, "I have to completely cut him off." You're saying how you're so much more mature and everything, but that seemed like the most opposite of mature thing you could have done. And you're confused about why you're crying over him? Is it not obvious? You don't end relationships like that. You leave them unfinished by simply cutting people off. You have to talk it out. Yes, relationships are messy, but that's what it means to have a relationship: to be mutual in things.

    You're crazy if you think you're heartbroken. Your mind simply twisted what he said into what you wanted. You opted for the most convenient solution instead of the mature solution. You didn't want to put in the work for the relationship anymore. You didn't even want to end it properly. You simply wanted to ignore it, pretend as if it never happened. And if you can do that then do it. It's your choice. But don't pretend to be heartbroken, don't pretend to be the victim. It's a two way street, Baby.
     
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    Chololate. Lots of chocolate.
    Works wonders after a couple of months.
    Not only does no one approach you but now you have much bigger issues to worry about.
    Like how to melt away the tub of lard sitting on your stomach.:)
    Don't make the mistake of whining and isolating yourself. Get up and share my novel dammit!:)
     
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  18. Three Headed Blue Cerberus

    Three Headed Blue Cerberus [Hell Gate Keeper][God of Lust and Sloth]

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    Treat your self with the best food you can get, go on vacation with friend, play games together with them ( console / online or whatever ) , read novel and then finish it with good nigh sleep
    When you wake up and realize that yesterday wasn't 'just' nightmare but harsh reality and then you realize there plenty guys waiting for your attention and hey you feel how you are silly over mere heart break treating like it's the most pitiful event of your life.
     
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    Which novel? :hmm:
     
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    Three Headed Blue Cerberus [Hell Gate Keeper][God of Lust and Sloth]

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    The best treatment of heart broken is GET MARRIED ALREADY ... or so my friend suggest to me but I can't do that coz the last time I got broken hurt when I still Immature 17 y old, the hell I'm gonna married at such ages where I still beg money for mom.