Discussion How do I get a girlfriend?

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  1. Estarossa

    Estarossa 《Master of Dessert》°Resurrected Ghoul°

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    As long as the guy is happy, thats all that matters
     
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  2. Kuro_0ni

    Kuro_0ni Cocooned in a Life transition

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    If you're looking for something romantic, then time is a factor and these style of relationships need to be worked on a re-occuring basis.

    Cold dating (Just meeting someone) doesn't help in this regard. Kinda like online, apps, speed dating, things of this nature. Just because you'd have to set time aside.

    Romance is developed by habit, so you can build it by working on those within your surroundings or sphere of influence. Like if you go to a gym on the regular, or you have a favorite coffee shop you go to everyday or every other. Places where you have a re-occurring presence.
     
  3. 0000000

    0000000 I B SMILING!

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    That too. Problem will be this reality he is in. Even Filthy Frank had to give in...
     
  4. Nargol

    Nargol Evangelist. Candy-san. Pope of the Cult of Pyoo

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    What do you mean?

    There are plenty of hot singles waiting for you. Just go to xvideos and click one of the adverts, and a local hottie will be yours!
     
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    Oh, there is always a cute girl with a sweet smile, it really brings joy now that I think about it.
     
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    Lil K.O [Loki]

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    Step 1: hit the gym ,get ripped
    Step 2: Mentally prepare yourself to get rejected
    Step 3:Get rejected
    Step 4: keep on trying and getting rejected till eventually you get a girlfriend
     
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    :blobmelt:are you one of them or their employer? Introduce me directly, my hooker *wink*
     
  8. Lazriser

    Lazriser Well-Known Member

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    Unless you're willing to work double or triple time, and pay for child welfare with the potential of having your wife/children waste your income earned, don't get her pregnant.
     
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    Sounds like the Saitama road or the road of try and error in programming. This really is a great advice. I will try it, but I'm worried of incorrectly repeated training which destroys my body in the long term
     
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  10. Kuro_0ni

    Kuro_0ni Cocooned in a Life transition

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    Romance is built by the little interactions we add to everyday. Much like building relationships/ friendships amongst classmates, coworkers and peers.

    Small talk is a neccesity, and overcoming awkwardness is key. If you flub a situation, just own up to it.
     
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    JagerGodhand Well-Known Member

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    How to get a GF/Waifu?
    • Be financially stable: Who’ll stay with you if you can’t even feed yourself?
    • Maturity: not in a sense of age, but in how you act in different occasions/situations, and on how you view things from your perspective then on the others perspective.
    • Be physically active: +strength +stamina +HP. You won’t meet any ladies if you don’t go out.
    • Read, read, read: +int +wisdom. Smart is sexy
    • Be handy: chicks dig those men who can help them in their time of need. Her car broke down? You got her. She needs a plumber? Be mario.
    • Temper control: learn to control your temper, you ain’t some CN MC who kills people for offending them, but you also ain’t some JP beta MC, so when it’s time do it, just do it.
    PS: I also don’t have a GF so don’t trust me. Lol
     
  12. Lil K.O

    Lil K.O [Loki]

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    Just Google how to ripped and remember to take breaks ,just remember that no one really knows what they doing and just going forward with trail and error . No one is born a Chad all the guys that be getting 20+ plus chicks have way more rejections than they do successes.if they say they dont then they lying
     
  13. Elzio

    Elzio Well-Known Member

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    Use project infinite tsukuyomi then voila got a girlfriend in your


    DREAMS
     
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    0000000 I B SMILING!

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    Dun worry, you are destroying your body one way or another, we are not built to last.
     
  15. OverlyFriendly

    OverlyFriendly I should do something about

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    don't be in a relationship with someone just because of 'expectations'.
    it's not very fair for either of you.

    But you shouldn't just give up and not even try to form any meaningful relationship, be it acquaintances, friends or lovers, just because you don't want to bother to try or expect to be forever alone.
     
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    0000000 I B SMILING!

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    That last part wasnt necessary, but like for your honesty.

    Also, be positive, be her pillar, her guiding light that shines.
     
  17. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    well, first forget about female from anime/novel , the RL Female is troublesome one,

    And you must the one who make the first move, to show them, your seriousness,

    Well... just visit love thread, if you want more advice.
     
  18. Kuro_0ni

    Kuro_0ni Cocooned in a Life transition

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    Like seriously, meeting women in a gym is a very prominent approach. Just take classes with a high female to male ratio. Interact cordially with the girls there and express interest, maybe one of them will bite (Zumba, yoga, etc).
     
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    Link?
     
  20. Kuro_0ni

    Kuro_0ni Cocooned in a Life transition

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    But, but, but.... the girl I'm interested in has a boyfriend.....



    Then pipe down, hold your horses, there are like other girls out there too.