Who do you consult to?

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  1. Haruhal

    Haruhal Well-Known Member

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    If you're so pent up with your family problems who do you usually consult your problems to?

    I feel like I want to let out these bottled up :blobsad:emotions but dont eanna talk to my friend cause even my good friend (one I trust,I thought I could:blobsad:) told my problems to others... :blobcurse::blobcurse:

    So how about you?
    Or is it okay to share it in this kind of forum?:blobcatcop:
     
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  2. reagents 11

    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    A wall...

    On serious note though it's my friend's wife. She's very smart.
     
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  3. Nargol

    Nargol Evangelist. Candy-san. Pope of the Cult of Pyoo

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    Problems in our family only last the duration of our argument pretty much

    We just shout at each other for an hour then go back to normal
     
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  4. Kazuel_Hellscythe

    Kazuel_Hellscythe Well-Known Member

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    It's ok..
    If you want to pent it up consider to talk to separately with me on conservation??
     
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  5. Ryan_Oliver

    Ryan_Oliver Well-Known Member

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    Go ahead, quite sure no one will judge you here, they might even make you see things from a different angle ...
     
  6. srrrahim

    srrrahim A woman's heart, a needle under the sea

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    i think it's alright if you want to talk about it in this kind of forum
    After all, sometimes, talking to an anonymous person is much more comfortable than holding it inside
     
  7. Arcadia Blade

    Arcadia Blade ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ You can do it!!

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    People ask me how could i be good at talking when they never see me talk or have a conversation with someone. I usually tell them that i talk to myself everyday from the moment i was born. I was raised in a place where i need to be social with others.

    So, if you see me talk, this is the skills i learn from talking by myself all these time.
     
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  8. Haruhal

    Haruhal Well-Known Member

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    Asian parents will get more annoyed if their kids talk back to them so thats why most of us just bottled it up and it drives me sick

    Thanks blobmelt_thumbs:blobsneeze:

    Yeah...you're right.. thanks for reminding me for this.. different angle huh blobmelt_thumbsblobmelt_thumbs

    You're not afraid to talk to her? So I guess talks facetoface really needed huh
     
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  9. StuffedDuck

    StuffedDuck Stuffed with Fluff

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    ... get drunk (ofc only if you are of legal age) and tell it the barkeeper, or
    ... get drunk on milkshakes (if you're not of legal age) and tell it the guy behind the bar ...


    ... you could as well get a stone and tell it all the problems you have - it won't snitch on you!

    ... or kill your friend (the chatty one) and tell the problems his corpse (preserved in your basement) - he won't be chatty now!
     
  10. Kazuel_Hellscythe

    Kazuel_Hellscythe Well-Known Member

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    If you want to have a conversation with me try to make conversation individually??
     
  11. Fryz

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    Agreed. As long as nobody knows your NU ID in real life, what you share here will stay anonymous. Feel free.
     
  12. Kronos

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    I usually just start punching something. Like a wall, usually the pain on my fists distracts me from my overflowing rage. Giving me the power to unlock my hidden potential as the flows of energy whirl through my very being.
     
  13. SquirFail

    SquirFail The One Who Forgets, Dreamer, Observer

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    with my bed, frankly i dont do well regarding family matters and if im angry at something especially at my family i need to cool off and sleeping on is the only way for me to not get stressed, even though i like playing games and working out it stresses me more if i dont reset my brain
     
  14. Dark abyss soul

    Dark abyss soul Lurking. Eff 1702 notifications I am dead

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    U can consult Kaz personally he can be very helpful.. And handy with good suggestions
     
  15. reagents 11

    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    You're determined to pass it onto the kind bar keepers no matter what i see... :hmm:
     
  16. xtremeloldude

    xtremeloldude the slime guy

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    i've got a friend i talk to online every day through discord about anything, including family issues
     
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  17. DiabolicGod

    DiabolicGod Well-known lazy Member

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    I share it on forum or vent in a game chatroom where the chat gets deleted every 5min, as long as there aren't toxic ppl at that moment. Not many people might read it or really care, but just getting it out helps, so do that. And better yet, do it on an account that is worth nothing and that you don't use too much or that hasn't any connection to other accounts you might have.
    I kinda have the same problem, having problems, but no friends close enough that I am really comfortable sharing everything with them.
     
  18. Westeller

    Westeller Smokin' Sexy Style!! Staff Member

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    I just randomly rant to friends like everyone else.
     
  19. Amaruna Myu

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    my phone
    got not enuff social life
     
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