Maybe if its just for companionship and not love. If you don't have preference for the same gender then it is only like having a close friend or companion that can support you on an emotional level. Some of them might think, oh we get along really well so it might be fine to be in a relationship. And i think that most of them are just curious or experimenting.
- being for gay doesnt mean it is genetically, read about "fraternal birth order effect". - there is no evidence for heterosexuallity coming from society, though its only because you simply cant take out society out of someones life. (Well you can but no baby surives that, there are studies on that lol) - "variation of evolution", gayness could be a a variant, a "new" strategy of evolution to try and see if it has better fitness. It would be a good strategy in poorer regions since they wont have their own kids and therefore you would have more adults caring for fewer children which would give them a higher survival rate, but honestly the numbers dont add up for that. - im hungry and wanna eat something so this is all i can think of right now c.c all in all what you need to know is: "science doesnt care about your subjectiv veiws" (dont wanna be harsh but it is like it is you know...)
Perhaps there is perhaps there isn't. It is an abnormal behavior in any case whatever the cause. I categorically reject any attempt to normalize gayness even if their original purpose is to stop persecution based on it. Any straight man would categorically reject being close to a gay the same or even more strongly than the way they categorically reject any woman they finds (in polite words) distasteful so the rejection that sometimes followed by persecution do well placed. There isn't anything wrong with it.
Ahh, you behaved like most human would. When they are told the truth they can't accept, they will refuse it, become stubborn and treat the falsehood as the truth. I'm no different though, few people can accept the bitter truth. And I disagree with your statement "Any straight man would categorically reject being close to a gay". I am a straight guy myself but I don't mind hang out with gay people. Not every men have the same mindset as you and you saying any straight men will do things as you do is simply stupid
I got so many questions reading this and honestly it was very funny and I mean really very funny as this literally implicitly messed up the very foundation and reason of evolution, because if I am to summarize and conclude then going by that logic, evolution decided that the human race was so dangerous that it decided to introduce gayness as a mean to reduce the number of humans and perhaps at some point make the human race disappear
ill assume you meant my 3rd point, but i say the complete opposite of what you understood... how you concluded that from what i wrote seems a mystery to me but ok, afterall you were the person to suddenly talk about gender when the topic is about sexuality: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I am talking about in the matter of attraction. You can be honest, when a woman you find either ugly, smelly, or anything else you find distasteful on her make advance on you there definitely a feeling of disgust. With gay it the same problem. I like the close bond you can build with fellow men where you can be relatively open with them something that just you can't make quite work with opposite sex. With opposite sex there's definite line you did not cross. Now with gay the line become quite unclear.
You do realize that gender and sex are synonyms, right? or do you perhaps, don't understand what you are talking about ? Sexuality is defined by the way you are attracted to someone else meaning the same or opposite gender, you see the relation here, right? So, you can't separate the two words, if you are talking about sexuality then you got to mention or and talk about gender, like when you ask what is your sexuality? you can also ask what gender are you attracted to? see the relation here?
As much as I hate to admit it, gender and sex are no longer synonyms Yes and you talked about gender when the post was all about sexuality actually nope i dont get it, I mean i get your points, but what if we always used heterosexual and homosexual instead of using gay, lesb etc.? you wouldnt need to tell someone your sex then.. maybe im just missing something... anyways i only know about how humans work, im not into language stuff so im probably really looking at it the wrong way ._. anyways didnt wanna start an arguement, just wanted to say what "my experience" is. have a good day :3
Excuse me, girls don't become lesbian or bi because they're lonely. Does Ai-chan look like someone who's lonely? Or has the capacity to be lonely?
I think getting into a relationship with someone; regardless of gender, just for the sole reason of escaping loneliness (while feeling zero attraction) seems like a rude thing to do the other party. The guilt that I'm using them would just push me into a spiraling pit of despair Never actually felt lonely being single though, so maybe that's why I can't sympathize that mindset
It isn't the case for women though. Check this research: http://indiana.edu/~sexlab/files/pubs/Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf Basically almost all women are bisexual biologically and could be aroused by lesbian porn even if they consider themselves straight. As you can see from further research it isn't the case for men as gay porn doesn't make most of us aroused. So yes, in case of women their "orientation" is a choice as they are already bisexual and it is a matter of preference. This is also why they can't understand concept what straight man can't become gay or bi no matter what.