Stories where the MC decides to stop chasing ML and ML starts chasing MC similar to these novels don't really want BL or Yaoi https://www.novelupdates.com/series/its-purely-an-accident-to-love-again/ https://www.novelupdates.com/series/the-lady-is-a-stalker/ https://www.novelupdates.com/series/beloved-empress/ https://www.novelupdates.com/series/im-only-a-stepmother-but-my-daughter-is-just-so-cute/
Avoid the Protagonist - Actually, it was the original that was chasing ML, and as soon as MC came online/transmigrated, she decided to stay away from ML. Then ML becomes interested and chases her instead~~