so i remember weird things from the past...

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  1. Tsukkin

    Tsukkin [is currently lurking]

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    Lately i somehow remember many things from the past. Some of them are so weird, you see in the past i have tendency to ignore reality and facts when im confused about things, so when i faced those weird scene in the past i kinda hypnotized myself so that i won't think about it anymore. But when i think about it now, it's weird. Here's an example:
    Once in junior hs, my classmate lend me her usb storage to me bcs i want to copy study material or smth i forgot. Theres a bunch of of random files in there and i accidentally discovered unspeakable things for my age at that time. I found her nudes. Many of them, with different poses and angle. And for conservative small town teenage girl like me it was a very shocking thing. My brain was short circuited and i legit thought that it was a dream. I mean, at my place ppl are still so conservative, even more for junior hs children. I was innocent at that time (i mean i still am lol). And my friend is like sweet next door sister you can find in manga. So it was quite a shock. After that i couldn't face her for a long time.

    Idk why she put her nudes carelessly in her storage when she often lends it to our classmates. And more shocking thing is the one who took the pics is none other than her own blood brother (he's a grade younger) and he's in the pics too. As i said at that time i was stunned and cant think of anything so only now i can think abt it clearly. So yeah im like, did i discover a real life incest that year???

    Ok let's be real, i don't have any thoughts abt incest in manga or novels, but when someone close to you is having that kind of relationship what would you feel? Tbh im still confused. Im not sure if im disgusted or fine with it. I don't agree with that but i don't reject that as long as it doesn't involves me. What do you think? Is it normal? Is it wrong?
     
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    Lazriser Well-Known Member

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    Forgive me or not, but I shall reply with an aging meme: Sweet home, Alabama~

    Now, here's my serious reply. Personally, you have no legal issues with them, regardless whether you're fine or disgusted by their relationship. Of course, if their relationship is mutual, and is causing no problem in the town, then perhaps you could just turn a blind eye to it. Of course, there might be circumstances behind them you may desire to not know, but whatever floats their boat shall depend in the eyes of law and their family. But, should their relationship affect you badly, you have the right to distance yourself from them, or warrant investigations against them using your social connections with the basis of having (false) mental health issues against them. You can also continue to be her friend, as long it's not personally messing up your routine.
     
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    replay ★Milk and Honey smelling Merchant★

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    hmmmmm. . . .
    for me I think letting a friend find your nudes that are stored in a USB or something is nothing weird. . .
    well for a stranger it will be a bit awkward. . .
    but for a friend its OK. . .
    unless you just call them as friend coz you hang out with them.or something. . .
    for me a friend has a deeper meaning I think. . .


    PS: now that I get a good read on it. . .
    are those nude photos of your friend alone? or with partner PR with other people?
    or just random nudes videos you can get from sites and stuffs?
     
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    DocB "I see you, little mouse! Run along"

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    i'm gonna say that you live US (problably redneck land) and here is the kicker unless you live in Rhode island where incest is not a crime, except for marriage (but even that has no penaltie, simply the state does not recognize the marriage as legal
    Rhode Island No person shall marry his or her sibling, parent, grandparent, child, grandchild, stepparent, grandparents' spouse, spouse's child, spouse's grandchild, sibling's child or parent's sibling.
    Consensual incest between people 16 years old or more is not a criminal offense.
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    and ohio that that only cares if it is betwee parent and child (so siblings is ok)
    Ohio Actor is the victim's "natural or adoptive parent, step-parent guardian, custodian, or person in loco parentis of the other person". Sexual conduct 2y to 8y[47]
    all others you get from 10 months to up to life imprinsonment (idaho)
     
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    Bloodysin28 The victim of true evil that is reality

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    Atleast you never got a guys nudes by accident and are also a guy,the horror,from then on the guy whose nudes got accidentally got shared with like 300 people became know as 5.5 inch
     
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    Yup. It's not normal but whether it's wrong or not i don't know which. We aren't wired to lust over our sibling that much is clear to me. Maybe they're doing that just for the heck of it ?
     
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    Seeing stuff like that is shocking and our minds have built in mechanisms to deal with it. Like, blanking things out until it becomes an issue again or you are ready to deal with it.

    Maybe this is the time to ask yourself what you think about this and what you will do with that information now ~ Do you need to do anything?
     
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    Errr maybe your friend and her brother were too innocent at that time that they didn’t know it was “wrong “ or awkward to take nudes as siblings? Or maybe he was taking pictures of her because she wanted to be a model (of some weird sort)? It doesn’t have to be incest, right?
    Plus what bothers you more: 1- the incest, 2- your girl-friend being nude (you have gl tendencies?) 3- your friend being careless and leaving her pics for others to see, 4- her having a better body than you- thus you are secretly jealous.... see our brain can short circuit not just due to nude or incest
     
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    You forgot 5- wanted to be the one seen nude by friends brother.
     
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    Meloman My dog is lazier than me

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    6- you feel guilty as it is wrong to look in other people’s files without their permission
     
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    7- you want to join them in wathever they are doing
     
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    Umm yeah i did distanced myself from her, well i don't really care tbh but the reason why i made this thread is bcs im just wondering abt ppl's thoughts on incest, bcs at my place it's quite a big deal and even though i know this a common thing in some places i still feel weird about it.

    It's her own photos, and his brother too.

    Unfortunately i live in asia...and you know...asia...

    Idk, until now i still don't get what's she thinking back then.

    Nah i don't need to do anything, honestly idc about them, just the thought of it makes me feel weird and i need to get it out of my head, it's a bad memory.

    What a BS, someone who took those kind of pics should know one thing or another. What really bother me is obviously abt my friend being so "careless" and leaving her intimate pics for others to see. The incest thing is so annoying, it would be if she didn't let others know.

    In my defense, she gave permission to open the files, second it's all random folders and i need to get my study materials ofc i have to find it. And she also stated that the usb is like the "public property" bcs she often lends it to other ppl mostly for school related things.

    Ugh gross -_-
     
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    Oh, so you're Asian. Remain calm at my question, because I'm going to be the misinformed, insensitive, and ignorant fucker in this conversation right now. If ya don't mind me asking, but is incest accepted there just like in them Asian manga? Repeat, I ask for "acceptance", not "practiced". You have the right not to reply such toxicity from me... or am I just too polite here?

    BURGERS! BURGERS! WE NEED MORE FRENCH FRIES!
     
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    Oh good! Loli porn! This reminds Ai-chan of Ai-chan's first porn. Ai-chan was probably 11 or 12. The first porn Ai-chan saw was a nude picture album of a young Chiaki Kuriyama. She was probably in middle school. She was so gorgeous despite not having any tits. It must've been the eyes, those eyes that pierce into your soul and pressed their heels on you as your spine shivers in that piercing gaze.

    Well anyway, big sisters are their little brothers' bitches. If only Ai-chan has a little brother...

    As for the nudes, taking nudes among family members used to be acceptable. Not normal, no, but it didn't have the kind of stigma that such an act carries today. Ai-chan is talking about pre-80s era. People started getting all kinds of stuck up starting from the 80s. In Sweden, child pornograpy was legal between 1971-1980.
     
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    In my view, incest in itself isn't immoral. It's just that a significant portion of the possible cases of incest are, and normalising it would have harsh consequences.

    For example: gay twins in college having sex. There is no power dynamic, no chance of birth defects (since there's no chance of birth), both are consenting adults, no-one is harmed.

    However, normalizing incest will lead to more cases of extremely immoral incest: things like a father abusing his daughter, or an older sibling manipulating a younger sibling, etc.

    As well as this, most humans (myself included) are wired to be disgusted by incest, since it can lead to birth deformities. However, I don't think this should be used as an argument against incest since, firstly, not all incest leads to pregnancy (birth control, gay people), and secondly, being opposed to someone having children because they have a slightly higher chance of being disabled is literally eugenics and that's not a path you want to go down.

    Tl;dr: not all cases of incest are immoral, but normalizing it would lead to a rise in the cases that are immoral
     
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    Hmm...
    In east asia? Yes...
    When? A long time ago...check those japanese royal history
    How about now? Idk i don't live there but i guess it's kinda rare and ppl don't really accept that
    What about my place? Nope, it's kinda against the social norm here so...
     
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    Well, provided those friends are at least 18 and the nude images on the USB are of consenting adults that are at least 18, I think one is clear on the legal side. Of course, it helps to have proof of the my points in the last sentence just in case any legal issues comes up. As for it is being moral/ethical, that is another story.
     
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