https://www.novelupdates.com/series/genocide-online-playtime-diary-of-an-evil-young-girl/ I really liked this one but the updates are really slow. Don't recommand it except if you're willing to go to the original site and MTL it manually.
I believe that I've recommended these to you before, but: 1 - Wizard with the Flower Blades: MC attempts to start playing a VRMMO, only to be warped into another reality while undergoing the introductory stage and get genderbent into a female. May fail the "Badass" criteria due to personality being akin to oobleck's - easily pushed around for things they consider minor, hard as stone for important things. MC is overpowered, but cares more about swordsmithing than adventuring, being a Sword Otaku. 2 & possibly 1 - Originstory the VRMMO: The Advent of Axebear - A VR Game that's actually treated like a Game, and a Badass Female MC who's playing for fun, screw "best builds for X". NOT the first VR Game in existence, but rather just a new one that sounded interesting. Systems for Crafters & Designers are well set up when introduced, even if MC herself has no interest using them. The reason for "probably 1" is that there's no real love interests so far, but a male character met in VR has been met in real life, recognized by the MC, and the MC found their meeting amusing, so "potential love interest" potentially fits. MC is not going to be protected by anyone any time soon, however.
You can find all of my recommendations in Royalroad Metaworld Chronicles Bitter by Mooderino Getting Hard Defiance of the Fall A Hero's War The Scourged Earth Polyglot: Historia Online Apocalypse redone Farming For Gold