First date plz send help

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  1. Catscatscats

    Catscatscats Member

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    it’s been a hot minute since I’ve been on a date y’all and I’m super nervous. Words of encouragement? Advice? Pics of cats?
     
    Catscatscats, Oct 4, 2019
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    Densha otoko?
     
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    raitei ⟪Procyon lotor paronomasiaabsentii⟫

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    Edit again: There you go!
     
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    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    Word of advice: Don't eat this particular date!
     
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    Hmmm. To be honest. When im on date i let it more natural even though the silent is kinda painful when you don't have topics to talk.
    How about talking about her hobby or any thing that matching with you and her preference.
    If you really can't communicate or don't want to make it awkward, then bring her to walk around, then goes to arcade, last to restaurant.
    The most important things is dont force the conversation.
     
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    Small talk. Weather, co-workers fun stories, hobbies~
    Don't be too self-conscious, act like you would while having lunch with a regular friend! Have fun!
     
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    DocB "I see you, little mouse! Run along"

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    make conversation, try to alternate between asking about them and telling about yourself.
    do not use phone during date except to send dick pic/ nudes at about the halfway point
     
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    Well your female and like cats. Don't talk only about cats for too long. It will bring to mind the crazy cat lady image. Most people like talking about themselves so ask a lot of questions and follow up questions.
     
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    Myriadfold 『Silkmaid』『Ishhara's Devotee』『Daoist』『WW Vet.』

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    try to find what you have in common and what differences you have.

    let them see that while you don't reflect all their interests, you are interested in knowing more about them and you won't pass judgement on all the things you disagree with. make sure that in case your date has planned nothing that you have a few suggestions in the area for you to both enjoy yourselves to avoid the date being a total flop when you would otherwise have suited each other.
     
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    I don’t have a dick personally so are other dudes dick pics okay?
     
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    Zaart Deer Master Race

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    depend how you mean "eat" ~
     
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    Zaart Deer Master Race

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    yes, take the biggest you find on the internet, in another skin color (for better effect)
    and say it is yours!
     
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    Ah yes don’t let the crazy show too soon. Duly noted. Though I will say I don’t actually have any cats.
     
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    Um...

    Go big or go home?
     
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    GonZ555 What i want for christmas is you

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    Dont get isekai'd on your way to your date~
     
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    Just told your partner this is your first date in your life, trust me it work for me :3
     
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    OP then realizes he's the discount High School DxD protagonist on this first date. Not sure if we should be pitying or envy his future endeavors.
     
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    now, take a breath and sips your tea...
     

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    simple nudes will suffice, but if you want to go the extra mile another person dick is a nice touch
     
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  20. Capsize

    Capsize Would you like to be isekai’d? ψ(｀∇´)ψ

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    Never be late.
    Avoid using your phone(social media, games, unimportant calls) during your date.
    Avoid staring at other people too long, might send wrong message to your date.
    Avoid any sensitive topics(religion, politics, etc.).
    Be confident and have trust in yourself.

    Pic of cats? Here ya go.:blobwink:

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