So... you are somehow rich guy and two girls who aren't really into you (how you said) become your wives and they control your finances while you have no control over theirs? Your first wife was like "I have a friend who got pregnant by another guy, let's take her into a family"? Or I misunderstood your situation? More important questions though - did you have a threesome with them? How often you have sex? Are they bisexual with each other?
I never have threesome. With them, and they are just normal madam. No fancy stuff like you think. 1st: "my best friend got trouble with men, can I take her into house" Me: well we have some empty room, sure why not? 1st: could you marry her as well. You know she got 'accident' Me: are you sure about that? Sure whatever you wish honneh (At that time polygamy is normal in our country "if nobody knows, that's it") For some people like me marriage is like bussiness as usual, love, feeling, affection is kinda like "what kind of food is that?" So yes They're not into me and I'm not into them (at first). That what's happen for decade's until I know Kuudere and Tsundere is. She's our first daughter, she's gives us cute loli and shota. And I never think that she's not mine. And abortion is sin (that's what I think) altough I'm not force that thought to my child. But not in my ikemen adoption son case. Goddamn it! son! You got flower in your both hand go for it Boy! Unlike those rigid and ancient thinking father's in my country. I don't care about our children spouse status, money is not everything for me. What matters most is attitude, if he or she's good person, I'm okay with he or she. Money you can always got it later, but manners is big no. Manners maketh person. ~Prongsjiisan 2019
Fortunately be it my biological kids, or my adoption kids, all of them is handsome and pretty. Surrounded by handsome and pretty people gives you good feeling. And it will makes you slightly handsome (just tiny weeny bit). No kiss x sis. My son got relationship with two girl. (Two Timing) aww I want to hug him. Oh wait he's married them already. My first wife is kuudere, I guess that's why I got interested in her in first place. My second wife is tsundere... ( Tsundere in real life is suck ) I'm not that rich. Everything is as it should be..
Would this mean shes okay with this now? Are family events awkward? Does everyone in the big family know? With both??
Not really common, but not that rare either.. i am surprised that jiisan managed a pretty happy family with two wifes tho. I dont really hear a lot of good things about a guy with two wifes..
First wife asking for divorce, One of the wifes family beating up the guy, living in separate houses or living with his mistress, etc.. Maybe because my family own a store, we hear gossip quite a lot. Once in a while, that kind of rumours pop up.
the 1st lady is surely cool. wow salute on another note, this reminds me of that one arc in Otoyomegatari manga
She is, isn't she? She's Kuudere type. That's make me fall for her more and more. Ice queen, I really love this type of girl. She is Asagao, blooming in the morning where me still asleep. Always quiet and graceful. And her cold stare, piercing through my soul. I almost can't lie in front of her.
How does one survive this ??? I can never imagine because I want my man to be only mine while I can have anyone I want
to wed your favorite dere is like living the dream, huh. i aspire to be like this. so jiisan has a streak of M inside him as well?
By being tolerant, understanding of each other's needs and limits as well as having proper communication. Without any of these three elements, even a monogamy will fall apart in just a few years. Polygamy is not much harder if you take these three elements into your heart.