Discussion How does people believe in their lover ?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Tsuru55, Oct 17, 2019.

  1. Emmyy

    Emmyy Kadupul flower* blooms at midnight*dies at dawn

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    Wow..That is terrible! Now I see why a guy I knew in the military said he wouldn't have a gf. I can't imagine being in dangerous situations having to worry about someone's faithfulness..yeesh.. Why are people so treacherous w/ someone's heart. If you don't want to be w/ someone why cheat? Leave..so their ❤ can heal and find true love.
    Personally if I loved someone in the military I would wait and pray everyday for their safe return.. I have a friend I worry about all the time..
    I think cheaters are the worst type of low life people self absorbed and heartless..
     
  2. Westeller

    Westeller Smokin' Sexy Style!! Staff Member

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    Huh? Me?

    Well, many people say someone's thrust is something you have to earn, and I think that's reasonable. You can't just expect any random person on the street to thrust you unconditionally. First impressions can make a lot of difference in terms of whether or not someone is willing to thrust you, of course, but to really earn someone's thrust you have to spend time with them. Get to know them, and show them what kind of person you are in exchange. Show them that you're someone deserving of their thrust.

    If @Tsuru55 is having trouble thrusting others, maybe it's just that no one has earned that thrust yet.
     
  3. Tsuru55

    Tsuru55 Well-Known Member

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    The thing is, i fear that people can cheat because feelings can change at any moment or just because there is a big beauty that appears the person will cheat. And that i fear that some people can easily hide their true colors for a long time.
     
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    :ROFLMAO:

    Trust the thrust :blobrofl::blobrofl::blobrofl:
     
  5. Diametric

    Diametric Waifu Connoisseur

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    This is fucking hilarious and I'm screenshotting for future use
     
  6. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    I dont know if you are male but watch Moteki and you will learn to trust women.
    You might fail at thrusting though :blob_coughblood:

    Oops! Thread starter is female. Its fine too. The author of Moteki is female.
    Cheers!

    Paranoia Paranoia!! Everyone's coming to get me

     
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  7. Cutter Masterson

    Cutter Masterson Well-Known Super-Soldier

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    As a strategy to figure out if your partner has STDs without you needing to do anything. You could suggest giving blood to the blood bank to save lives.
    As to cheating the teddy bear camera option. Is always an option.
     
  8. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    This is so obviously fake lol
     
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    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
     
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  10. yuzuki

    yuzuki [sweet night] [plum blossoms]

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    I think to me, this is a general question about trust.

    Relationships (romantic or not), are built on top of trust, and they will be painful ones in the absence of it.
     
  11. ongoingwhy

    ongoingwhy Meat Pie Lover

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    Well, you can either learn from @Ai chan or you could freely share your girlfriend with everyone. :blobpeek: You're not being cheated on if you gave your consent. :blobthinkingsmirk:
     
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  12. Ai chan

    Ai chan Queen of Yuri, Devourer of Traps, Thrusted Witch

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    Others will betray you, but Ai-chan never will. Ai-chan is your hero.
     
  13. userunfriendly

    userunfriendly A Wild Userunfriendly Appears!

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    Vote @Ai chan as your goddess! :D:blobparty:
     
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    Kadmos1 Well-Known Member

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    Trust is a hard thing, especially if the significant was a nagging Flat-Earth zombie.
     
  15. Haruhal

    Haruhal Well-Known Member

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    Honestly... cheating habit cant be changed.
    Once you found him cheating,said sorry he wont do it agin.. those are craps...
    My bf cheated on me,okay I forgive but then he just repeated it for the 2nd time and so bye.. thank you,next...

    Then I found it, he also cheated his exgf before before me..
    So you see,it cant be changed. Why bother to trying once more and felt the hurt whenever you remember it?
    I think of it as when you're injured, there's a rotten wound then it become to scabbed... but if you repeatedly touch your wound,scratch it you'll get infection... it's better if you just scrape the flesh off let it pain for a while but you'll be okay soon. Why bother keep a rotten wound?

    So in case I really really love him? Do I need to keep holding on?
    Nope, cause we havent reached marriage yet, and once you're in a relationship you should have commited to it.. that's my principle

    How to build this trust?
    1. Treat each other with respect, human have their own pride. Man-even if their gf are in better off position they stillwanted to be respected. Woman-it's gender equality now, but it doesnt mean they dont wanna be spoiled,pampered
    2. Dont be too paranoid..listening to rumours,asking about his exes (this lead me to disttust him and bye) what's past is the past, you cant compare for each human is different. If your lover say his ex is better then you..why are you with me then?
    I ended up ranting here QAQ
     
  16. Tsuru55

    Tsuru55 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry if it kinda hurt your privacy or you don't want to share it but : How did you know he cheated on you ?
    The fear i got is, if one day i got a lover, how the heck can i know if the lover cheated + bonus combo of fear of STD. Heck there was no STD in the world i surely wouldn't care if my lover cheated.
     
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    Jae lautner Well-Known Member

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    Trust is the key if there is enough trust btw you and your gf ofcourse she won't cheat and would even wait for you but if she does cheat means that she doesn't love you enough and its also time to say goodbye . Issues like cheating doesn't stay hidden for long also so u'll know what to do
     
  18. Bakaturq

    Bakaturq Tell me, what do you see?

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