If you can take back one thing in life, what, why and how?

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  1. mir

    mir Well-Known Member

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    :blobwoah:
    *zones out thinking about it*
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    :blobsad:

    I think @ongoingwhy is right, better to focus on the present and future.
     
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  2. Miserys_End

    Miserys_End 「Lv1 Pretend Person」I'm the preson i pretend to be

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    Nope, the first woman I loved married someone else after we broke up. We were still friends and she set me up with her cousin. In hindsight both of them had a rather negative effect on my life and the choices I made. I changed schools for the Ex-GF, which led me to dropping out of school at 16 after we broke up, and the ex wife just caused all kind of grief even after we divorced some 10 years after marrying her. Many events since then could have avoided or least have a better chance to avoid if I never met the Ex-GF.
     
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  3. Balthazzar

    Balthazzar 『Reformed Member of NuF Society』

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    Nothin im chillin
     
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    I should've gone to a different uni. I went to a private Catholic one, but I wish I went to a state-funded uni or college instead.
     
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    My coming into being in this fuck'en boring cosmos. The only main concern is how to prove myself that I never existed, when I myself desires to be the observer. Will it form a paradox of cosmic proportions or not? Fuck this cosmos, I just want existential suicide. Leave not a single trace of my existence, be it subatomic or whatever!
     
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    For me it's my cancer that i was diagnosed with 4 years ago. I Managed to get rid of it and all but the after effects sucks. Nothing better than beeing healthy
     
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  7. kyoshijiro

    kyoshijiro [Draugr] [Oniric Lord] [Disaster of a human being]

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    Most of my regrets are about my laziness rather than my choices, or about external influences that I could not change. so there isn't something I can "take back". If I had to say, then I would take back my application to my current uni. It was a rushed decision and I'm only signep up to it for the Money I receive (benefits of my dad's job). If I could go back I wish I could have signep up to a course that actually interested me. But then I might not have gone to the private course where I made some friends and got an opportunity to make games (so quickly)
     
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    My life. I wish that I never been been born. But I feel gratitude for my parent raising me. It's just I fell tired about humanity that I been give up.
     
  9. lighterxx

    lighterxx Hoshi stan before a human °^°)

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    Me being winning sperm
    Rather than taking away I want to start all over with my current knowledge
     
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    too many regret to choose from...
     
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    I'll take back myself. Then, this comment would not have happened.
     
  12. Er xiao jie

    Er xiao jie Well-Known Member

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    I want to return to the time when I was choosing my uni. I should be more stubborn about my choice rather than obediently followed my parents' words. Should have more courage to choose my own carier path. Now I'm stuck in a job my parents like but I don't even tho the payments are quite good. Its mentally draining and the most hated part is I did a good job at it while I fcking hate it.
     
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  13. Meloman

    Meloman My dog is lazier than me

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    My first reaction to answer this question was: not dating my first “real” boyfriend.
    Then I thought: if I didn’t go to that uni I would have never met him anyway.
    So technically I would have preferred to learn something like English BA or even work or travel instead of studying what I have before. Was long, expensive and currently not useful for me.
    Well, funnily enough that ex boyfriend has called me today. We are still friends many years later. The type of friend you can tell all your passwords to and know that they are save with him.
    Would we have ended up as friends if we have never been in a romantic relationship?
     
  14. zhainan2157

    zhainan2157 『Villager No.2157』『Kawaii Connoisseur』

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    Probably my choice of Uni. I should’ve picked a different Uni.
     
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    Evil_Ginger 『Lawful Neutral』『Cheese Master』『安德鲁』

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    @Pyoo what strings did you pull to repin this thread
     
  16. Pyoo

    Pyoo ☀ Summer Melody ☀

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    I did nothing!
    I dunno where people came from!

    Also its not pin, its just recent posts
     
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    Evil_Ginger 『Lawful Neutral』『Cheese Master』『安德鲁』

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    You got put back on the main page
     
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    Learning to play the violin.
     
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    oblueknighto Blue Person

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    What about you?
     
  20. Lswarmruler

    Lswarmruler 『Anya, The Cutest Esper Loli』《Spy x Family Manga》

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    Well, one thing that im still regretting in life till now was my stupid decision to go to different college than my former girlfriend from highschool

    Im very smart academically back in highschool n can easily accepted in any college in whole country that i wanted. Thats why i went to more prestigious college in different state than my gf. But back then no one ever told me n i really dunno that college is really hard in later years to finish working alone, n im really bad at socializing with most people.

    After studying for 4 years in college, im getting depressed, drop out from my college, losing my girlfriend, n verdicted with chronic diseases that doesnt have any cure yet..