Does "Dense character" exist in Real Life ?

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Does dense character can exist in Real life ?

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  1. CoupDeFri

    CoupDeFri My shadow is my best friend.

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    If it Exist are they build harem or not ?
    Or maybe people who have a lot of wives or husband are actually dense ?
    I really need the answer. (I can't sleep help)
     
  2. otaku31

    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    Yes, they do exist. No, they don't build harem.
     
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  3. Invalid_Name

    Invalid_Name Well-Known Member

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    Yes, but the difference is that the love interests move on very quickly.
     
  4. neogamer

    neogamer Cute is justice!「Maxwell 」

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    As a dense person *cringes at my teenage years* they do exist and no I didn't build a harem.
     
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    Geor Well-Known Member

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    agreed man, all of it lol
     
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    Tanhalevi Well-Known Member

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    Here I am.

    I don't have any harem.

    I managed to not understand that the girl that walked hand in hand with me for a good part of a Comic Convention saw me as anything more than a best friend and liked me just as I liked her.

    As a justification, she was in a (failing) relstionship and I immediately buried those feelings of young love inside.

    When she broke up, badly, I just helped her during the difficult months soon after, because I felt that trying to get with her just after the breakup, using that moment of weakness, would have been an Asshole thing to do.

    Our interactions slowly reduced for a while and she found a boyfriend.

    She admitted that if I had just asked, she would have immediately accepted.


    Well, boys and gals, that's the story of my last failed love.
     
  7. Renaxan

    Renaxan [Ero Culture Enthusiast]

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    Yes, but more into denial than dense.
    Even they recognize someone like him, he choose to not admit it.
    And no, no harem dude.
     
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    OldManGu Legendary Member

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    lnv ✪ Well-Known Hypocrite

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    Define dense?

    Not noticing subtle hints?
    - Yes, people have a hard time looking at themselves objectively.

    Too focused on a certain thing to be completely oblivious to everything else for a short time?
    - Yes, I have talked to people who can at times be like bricks walls. You could have say solved a problem and were already on a different topic but their brain got so hanged up on it they didn't notice you've moved on and even when you tell them they are like a broken record (cause they are ignoring what you are saying thinking they need to say what they need to say).

    Dense enough to not notice women fighting over them or not notice women being sexual towards them?
    - No, unless they grew up in a household of only women that were so close to him all their life that he would think that is normal behavior. Otherwise, no.
     
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    Lynx Professional...on lewd matter

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    The two people who answered 'I don't know' is the dense character you're searching for...
     
  11. naghi32

    naghi32 The Loner

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    All of the above, me included, apparently getting naked is not just a way to change clothes while still in the same room ^-^
     
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  12. Kurotsubaki

    Kurotsubaki Reincarnation of the Seven Deadly Sins

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    Maybe there are unnoticed harem, but nobody noticed. People with wife/husband shouldn't be dense tho
     
  13. Tanhalevi

    Tanhalevi Well-Known Member

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    Well... I was extremely popular with women while roleplaying online, does that count?
    They always ended up wanting to speak more.

    I have gotten some NSFW pics in the past, thanks to that.

    I still end up feeling bad about it and gradually stopping the private messaging every time.
     
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    Kurotsubaki Reincarnation of the Seven Deadly Sins

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    Roleplaying as woman? Not count.
    But well, it's online after all. You wont know is she's truly a she or he or maybe it, so many weird signal around
     
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    asriu fu~ fu~ fu~

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    yes~ they exist~
    most common cuz they not care or their attention to elsewhere~ hence such type arch nemesis irl is those who open fire with "I like you so please go out with me" on plain sight~ giving hint either romance or sexually mostly useless cuz again they either not care or their attention is somewhere else~ personally never seen harem on such type but if you mean 2 person somehow fighting for a dense cat on back stage then there plenty of it~

    my answer is yes
    personal experience~ sure I only know one case but at least I can say yes~
    Human is weird creature~
    specially when money involved~
    or those weirdo researcher............
     
  16. Kadmos1

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    Some incels, Flat-Earthers, and extreme cases of SJWs/snowflakes on either side are ones that might come to mind!
     
  17. Tanhalevi

    Tanhalevi Well-Known Member

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    nope, roleplaying as a man.

    ... Although I did roleplay a lesbian character once and, while chatting Off-Role with a girl my character had flirted a bit with, she said she was extremely relieved I was a man in Real Life.

    I liked playing that character, it was the over-the-top, hyperactive, charismatic type of character you don't meet in reality.
     
  18. Kurotsubaki

    Kurotsubaki Reincarnation of the Seven Deadly Sins

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    Maybe work as a man. But as there's little to none irl touch, i don't think it count
     
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    Tanhalevi Well-Known Member

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    I guess so.

    No Harem for me.

    Have a Good Day, Kurotsubaki.
     
  20. Jojo775

    Jojo775 Honorary Algae Knight

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    As @otaku31 said. I mean what kind of question is it - do they build a harem or not? You know any people that actually have harems? No, well there's your answer(exception with Indian or whatever cultures where polygamy based on money and status is practiced, that's not the harem you're talking about)
     
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