Discussion how to attract females

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  1. BigBadBoi

    BigBadBoi Well-Known Member

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    Okay that is worse than I thought. At first I thought it was just thots not talking to you like the thots they are but now they are just being petty bitches. You must not interact with these types of thots because the bitches will probably grow up as prostitutes in the end anyway and will provide little to no help to you now and in the future.
     
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  2. TypeFantasyHeart

    TypeFantasyHeart Well-Known Member

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    I bet its jealusy either because of your looks, your academy performance or you are just an easy target (dosnt fights back). When i was in school i was bullied until i beat the crap out of everyone involved (i got suspended of course, but the bulling stopped XD)
     
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  3. imK

    imK Artful Dodger

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    Depends on what kind of friends you want to make. You can make a lot of people like you just by being interested in what they find interesting. By being the kind of person who only has good things to say about others and if you don't have anything nice to say, simply by not saying anything about them at all. People really like other people who are similar to them, share their interests and show genuine interest in them. If someone doesn't like you that's a choice they've made and it's not your duty to change that. All you can do is be thoughtful, be kind and be good-natured. Other people will naturally gravitate towards this kind of personality because it makes us feel good when we're around them.

    I went the opposite route and decided to just be me and be honest about what I did and didn't like. I focused most of my attention on my hobbies and interests and gradually made connections with people who liked what I liked and became interested in my personality. They're still my friends 5, 10, 20+ years later.
     
  4. chamchaworld

    chamchaworld Lazy Chibi

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    Well, at least they didn't backstabbing me. When they hate something, they said it clearly, when I am doing something wrong, they told it to my face. It's way better than girl friends that keep smiling sweetly in front of me and badmouthing me when I am not around.
     
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  5. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    Can be many reasons, although I don't think it's the face.

    I don't know you well enough, but a common reason to be disliked yet not know the reason is if you're just too weird (in the bad way).

    There is "cool weird" and "bad weird", and you don't want to be the "bad weird".
     
  6. Sawanara murasaki

    Sawanara murasaki Sawa the HEro-sensei

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    Make sense too, why didn't I ever think about the 'weirdo' stuff:blobawkward:
     
  7. Nyann

    Nyann Nyartist

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    Male or female, if they judge you for your looks, avoid them. You can't force anyone to be your friend. They are not worth it
     
  8. Havisu

    Havisu Night Lurker

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    Good for you then. Guys aren't like so towards another guy
     
  9. VeraH

    VeraH eternally lazy

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    "Bad weird" reminds me of a guy friend I somehow still talk to...:sweating_profusely: He used to tell me (in a few occasions) when/how much he masturbated/watched porn the previous day...
    Like, I don't wanna know thank you very much...

    Other than that, maybe try hanging out with more diverse groups or going to social areas to meet new people....
    You could also ask around subtly to see just what girls found "unattractive" about you? See if there's anything you can do about it, instead of just succumbing to the fact that "they hate you" and not knowing the reason they hate you (I don't think you mentioned so I'm just pointing it out)
     
  10. Sawanara murasaki

    Sawanara murasaki Sawa the HEro-sensei

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    I don't think guys only backstab male friends, they backstab females too..My brother used to backstab females which he dislike..The worst I ever heard..
     
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    Lazriser Well-Known Member

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  12. chamchaworld

    chamchaworld Lazy Chibi

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    Maybe it's just like girls with other girls.
     
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