You get used to being alone to the point it ends up being more comfortable. When I was a kid, I wanted to be liked by everyone and have tons of friends. Didn't pan out. Got bullied. When I was a teen, I wanted a passionate romance without the sex, where a hot boy my age is madly in love with me and we're constantly in each other's company. Didn't pan out. Boys were too perverted and vulgar. Also, I made a few friends with the same interests and we got through our manic teen phase together. When I was in uni, I wanted an attractive boyfriend to study together and share food and sights. Still didn't want sex. Guys weren't interested even in being friends, cause it was a waste of time they could use on drinking and fucking instead (and gaming, lets be real). And then, I just got bored/ mildly disgusted with men (no offence to the some of you who don't wash their hands after pissing), with the exception of gay men and my friends' boyfriends whom I treat as family's family if that makes sense. And after living for long enough, I've seen enough disgruntled couples and ruined relationships to realize I don't actually want the hassle. I just like the idea of romance. Which I now get my fill of in novels and keep my personal space the way I like it and spend my free time the way I want. Also, being asexual never helped anyone get into a relationship lmao. Neither does it help that I value aesthetics too highly. And at this point, I'm too used to living by 'my rules', that another person in my life will be more annoying than exciting. Cheers to fellow lone people who don't actually feel lonely. I mean, the internet and my wallet keep me plenty entertained, and for someone who's not sexually motivated, that's all I need.
Yes but of all the days in the year, it sucks major league for singles on Valentines day. Singles are already aware but this day just continues to pile on the acid. S.A.D ..... very apt
@userunfriendly change it, I don't know whether she ate kitties or cthulhus or what exactly, but your life seems to be in danger
eh. maybe like me, they assume your out of their league and dont try. thats completely the reason my attempts fail. im too high tier, an intimidating lvl 90+ pokemon to everyone elses max50 pokemon