Discussion What do you find attractive in man or woman??

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  1. lazykitty_99

    lazykitty_99 Well-Known Member

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    Maturity, tall, stable temperament, responsible, loyal. Someone who doesn't take his partner for granted always testing their love , non selfish.
    Someone with whom you can have a peaceful and stable life.
     
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  2. Coffea to Ell

    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    So a more mature woman is more stable and open minded than the 18/19/20 years old girl because the have more experience in life??
     
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    Rickymex Well-Known Member

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    Yup. Of course it's not universal and there are always exceptions to the rule as there always is when talking about people. For the most however I have seen that there's is a huge difference in maturity between both age groups simply because they find themselves in different circumstances. The younger ones still have 2 to 4 years of finding their path and enjoying their new freedoms as adults.

    On the other hand the women I've met in the 25 to 30 range who haven't become housewives have been people who have gotten over flaunting their freedoms and reached a stage where they have to decide to focus on their careers or go the marriage route (some are skilled enough for both). It's around that age I think young people think "In 5 years in hitting 30. Where am I going to be then?" and start working to make sure that answer isn't nowhere when they reach it.

    Open-mindedness is hard to say since I believe it's easier for those with much less real life experiences entering very liberal institutions like universities to adopt a very vague and unfocused but vast open-mindedness while people with more life experiences are much better and realistic about describing their beliefs and stances on those subjects even if it makes them "close-minded" to other people. I think the latter is much more valuable in ascertaining the attractiveness and compatibility with a partner.
     
  4. Coffea to Ell

    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    For we to have a sense of security...
    *nod nod*

    So... What's the sexy onee-san's personality you found attractive...

    handsome ?

    A genuine woman who treat you as you are...

    What would you do if she just pretend to be dump so you wouldn't leave her...:blobpeek:
    Are your sister in law excel in different area?

    How about her personality?

    I hope you can find him Alice-chan...
    Someone who make your heart race, feels desirable, and mature man to protect you....

    (y) yep....
    Dont want to make them your gf?

    Where to find him.... :blob_teary:
     
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  5. Kadmos1

    Kadmos1 Well-Known Member

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    Personality is important, yes. What the ideal personality is for her, I don't know.
     
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  6. Loni4ever

    Loni4ever The Fluffy White Wolf

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    well if you wanna find him, good luck xD

    Btw you can tap "+Quote" on a post and then "Insert Quotes..." in your text editor at the bottom if you want to reply to multiple posts at once :blob_grin:
     
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  7. Coffea to Ell

    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    a confidence mature person who can be depend on... Sounds good
    We will find you a waifu before you turn into a granpa...
    What would you do to a toxic girl pretend to be innocence to gain your attention?
    To complete each other
     
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    TypeFantasyHeart Well-Known Member

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    So long as she isnt a yandere or a person with anger issues im up. The rest can be covered by being smart
     
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  9. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    I'm not that old!
     
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  10. Coffea to Ell

    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    But already a bachelor..... Thats the same... :p
     
  11. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    XD Pfffffft! *pat pat* Good luck indeed! But what if his skill is Fidget-Spinning?!
     
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  12. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    orz....
     
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    Loni4ever The Fluffy White Wolf

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    I guess if it's not attractive, he just hasn't practiced enough! Gotta get to god level fidget spinning :blobjoy::blobjoy::blobjoy:
     
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  14. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    pffft. Good point.
     
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    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    Give him to genie ossan to train him...
    *pat pat* dont worry you will find your waifu...
     
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    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    I hope so too! ^^)/

    Btw, Multi-Quote is a good function and you should try using it... >.>
     
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    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    Okay....(y) still trying to familiarize...
    But if the post too long i become confused :blobupset:
    How about genie ossan?? can he be attractive to you?? :blobpeek:
    *run away...*
    When oneday you find that onee-san are you sure you able to stand her playfulness :p
    Ah~ with that you can hope for a long lasting relationship...
    *nod nod*
     
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    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    Aih.... *pat pat* poor you....
    why dont you try to make her attracted to you...
    :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
    If you have that best friend now, and you already feel compatible with him...
    Dont let him leave you...:blobowoevil_horns:
    So.... are you already find him??? :blobwink:
     
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    Coffea to Ell 【❀ Sleepy Bunny ❀】

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    Older or younger?? :blobpeek:
    Ah~the gap...(y)
    So... Are you already find it??:blobpeek:
    compatibility ah~
    Do you prefer older or younger than you?:blobReach:
    independent, mature character?
    How about cuteness and beauty?:blobpeek:
    So never tell lies to you?
    Are you now already find the one ?
    Partner in life....
    Are you already find it now?:blobpeek:
     
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    Nancy2303 Well-Known Member

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    I think, what she meant was someone who is a best friend nd a boyfriend at the same time..:blobsmilehappyeyes:
    Gap??
    U mean ppl who I find attractive??
    Yeah!!
    Want to know them??:blobcheeky:
    Let me list u some!
    Henry, yang yang, :hmm:hrithik roshan nd shaheer sheikh(don't know abt their rl characters tho) :blobwink::blobpeek::aww:
     
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