How to stop being Fujoshi?

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  1. Meloman

    Meloman My dog is lazier than me

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    I liked bl genre, a lot before. But at some point I started to really hate the fact that many (not all, but many) novels portray one of the characters as a weak, wimpy, bulleable, good for nothing “thing”. I really dislike that. I think there should be a “give and take” in any relationships, including the romantic ones regardless of gender. I do not believe that a super strong person will forever be in love with a super weak one. May be it’s just my outlook on “relationships”, but as far as my life experience goes too far of a divide in status of sorts will not work long term. So somehow the “whimpiness” portrayed in the many bl novels really annoys me. Hence why I really like QWTFOTD, though. The MC is strong there by himself.
     
  2. reagents 11

    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    Well when you're done with yuri then you should move up to read gender bender.
     
  3. Lunaix

    Lunaix Well-Known Member

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    Uhh, just don't become a pseudo fujoshi or try to force it on anyone else. Learn to differentiate fiction from reality. If you're like that then people shouldn't really mind you being a fujoshi. There are fujoshi's out there that have a boyfriend that know about their hobby, and while weirded out, they don't care much because it's not like they force their fantasies on them, and they love them lmao they accept their love as who they are...!
    Also, just because you like BL doesn't mean you can't like BG romance? I like both after all.
     
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  4. lazykitty_99

    lazykitty_99 Well-Known Member

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    Same here i hate "weak mc /idiot mc" in any genre . Bg is filled with "idiot fls " it annoys me . That's why in bg i love sinister Ex-Girlfriend as mc is Cool.
     
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    Many men (both married and unmarried) like the idea of, and enjoy gxg in real life, porn and literature. Why shouldn't it be fine for a girl to like bxb, and for their spouse to be okay with that? If your spouse can't tolerate your hobby when it doesn't even affect their lives, then maybe it's not the right person for you imo. That goes for men who like gxg too
     
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  6. NoName

    NoName Well-Known Member

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    Just try it...

    Become a
    BISEX
     
  7. Nosister

    Nosister Well-Known Member

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    Ikr, i think you should stop yourself before you become a 'rotten to the core' girl like me.. I ain't feel anything towards BL I read/watch, just like a drugs. Once you get addicted, you have to fight hardly if you want to stop. I get depression from this
     
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  8. NoName

    NoName Well-Known Member

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    That was an awesome idea there mate...
    After that maybe
    a futa
     
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  9. Liyus

    Liyus Laksha's Desu~ Cat

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  10. Nosister

    Nosister Well-Known Member

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    That's why I put on #psychological tag on this. This dark side of internet is destroying psicological state of human
     
  11. Lazriser

    Lazriser Well-Known Member

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    There's nothing with fantasizing about BL, same with boys fantasizing GL unless you're forcing real people to pair up. That's obviously wrong. Be glad you're just a BL fanatic and not some of the rarer yet wider fanatics in the community.
     
  12. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    You mean stuff it so much it won't fit anymore?! :blobpeek:
     
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    Be picky of your taste.
    It will limit some of your options. (i.e. slow you down)
    [For example, some BL are about underage relationships, so you may tread this road cautiously.]
    You may choose the porn or the story route.
    Both are reasonable for satisfying yourself.
    Eventually you will/may develop a criteria and decrease the BL stuff.
    [But remember to treat yourself occasionally to be healthy.]
     
  14. Nosister

    Nosister Well-Known Member

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    Ha, well I read gender bender but I did not want to read Yuri. Man, really just from getting addicted for BL makes me feels weird towards male human (?) I even get vomited sometimes.. what do you think my psclgcl state would be like if I even enjoying yuri. Never.
     
  15. Nosister

    Nosister Well-Known Member

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    And what is QWTFOTD ? °°)
     
  16. Havisu

    Havisu Night Lurker

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    Believe me, my ex is a fujoshi too.. in fact, we broke up because she's so into BL that she no longer look at me the way she used to be before she became a fujoshi. She feels that normal relationship that we had is too dull and need to be spiced up by pairing with her other ex, wtf.

    In the end, she lost interest in me who is just a normal straight guy and i was left, even tho i already accepted her no matter how much she changed.
    Okay stop here, they won't get sick of it at all. Its lust after all, she might get sick of it for a while, but will get back to it soon enough.
    "Normal girls also ship people together and read romance novels", in other word, you approved that fujoshi is abnormal.

    Also normal girl or guy dont ship people with same gender. Us guy dont do that shyt too, it feels gross to even imagine either yuri or bl

    Thanks goodness that you realized yourself.
    I broke up with my former gf, who almost become my wife in another 3 months before we broke up, because she suddenly became a fujoshi out of mistakenly read a yaoi manga. Her feelings toward our relationship completely changed and in the end she feels i alone is not enough anymore and left me because apparently being single and reading yaoi and bl manga all days are much more worth it than getting married to me.
    I know it sound pathetic coming from me myself, but I don't want any other people to have the same experience as me.

    Don't indulge yourself in bl if you can, or just avoid it completely. Before reading any new novel or manga, make sure that there's no bl/yaoi/yuri/and such in genre tags. Make yourself busy enough that you dont have time to even think about it. Or change your hobbies to gaming instead. Don't forget to delete the platform of which you use to read those things. May God bless you for trying to change for better.
     
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  17. Amaruna Myu

    Amaruna Myu ugly squid dokja (●´∀`●)

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    you're calling a lot of females abnormal
    that's sad
    I did nothing to be labelled abnormal
    ._.
     
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    I mean, do whatever you want. If you want to stop, just stop. No one was forcing you to keep reading BL, especially if you don't want to. I hope you find some new novels to read ^-^
     
  19. Walter vi Britannia

    Walter vi Britannia Well-Known Member

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    Become a homophobe? Join a cult? That should solve it.
     
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  20. Meloman

    Meloman My dog is lazier than me

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