Discussion How to harrass ur crush

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  1. deepon

    deepon One who inevitably awakens

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    In your eyes, it's a crush. But in his eyes you might be a stalker, a pervert, a wannabe sex criminal, or just a plain bother. Do try to understand what he thinks of you first. Then try to improve your standing. Harassment, as far as I know, only works in hentai, not in real life.
     
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  2. Weiyuexuan

    Weiyuexuan Well-Known Member

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    Uwuuu so sad
     
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  3. mirfn

    mirfn Well-Known Member

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    Why would harass your crush? Its too hassle, just ignore him and find another one. Done.
     
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  4. Sabruness

    Sabruness Cultured Yuri Connoisseur

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    this might be the creepiest thread on NUF in a while.
     
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  5. melomarl

    melomarl Burning Red

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    My dear darling, a crush is meant to be admired in a distance unless said crush showed interest on you. If the crush looks disinterested, the things you're doing will only creep him out and he will totally ignore you.

    If your crush ain't crushing you back, it's completely normal. Not everyone will like you. You can befriend him but that would be awkward. And....... harassment can make you end in jail.
     
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  6. Asaslord

    Asaslord Active Member

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    I have been in both ends and things go so wild I can’t even know where to start.
    Someone recommend push and pull which sounds manipulative and it is. This is what he is doing to you with talking then ignoring you. You can try the same or just distance yourself.
    Also I know it’s hard to just not text but you have to not do that. I did way worst thing to “just reach/just talk” and when I look back into past, I only saw mental illness and search for some escape. Love is neither escape nor cure. You have to face your issues within yourself and don’t harass people.
    This is what I have been through and I hope it helps in your case.
     
  7. Maomaomao

    Maomaomao Cardboard cutout

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    I expected a bunch of harassment techniques but it turns out to be the opposite
    *:ஐ٩(๑´ᵕ`)۶ஐ:* good community
     
  8. Frozen ink

    Frozen ink Legally had harem『Cathulu』Power of Love & Evil』

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    the fact that u have his number means fake numbers can be made with the sole reason of dick pic

    alternatively
    post his number in 4-chan with a pic of a hot chick and tell em to go wild
    ez
     
  9. ru5ty

    ru5ty Citizen of MILF Kingdom

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    spam his phone, send him a box full of deep fried animals.
    trust me that works well
     
  10. Kaminomikan

    Kaminomikan 神のみ感

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    No, you don't harass whoever you have a crush.

    1- don't be a stalker.
    2- don't be toxic.
    3- DON'T be a stalker.

    Confess, if it doesn't work let go, DON'T be a stalker.
     
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  11. aegis062

    aegis062 Chaotic Demon Emperor

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    part of life is meeting people you are attracted to. but aren't attracted to you. If you like that person and you already know each other well asking him or her out is the best way to go.

    What the worst that can happen? he says no? at least you won't be anxious and doing all this pushing and pulling. maybe you find someone else you like.
     
  12. Weiyuexuan

    Weiyuexuan Well-Known Member

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    Actually about confession, he did it first then at that time im still not sure about him, and he know too, so he just say let's maintain our relationship like this, so Closer than friend but not boyfriend like that. Then we keep like it till it come covid and we cant meet like usual then slowly he started distanced from me, so i got panicked and lonely, but usually when i got angry or sullen he always call me, and no matter what time if i cry he always at least call, but then we got fight pretty big then slowly he pull away then idk anymore what going on or what's wrong with US. My friend told me about push and pull, but if i pull to hard he started saying that i don't need him anymore, then we quarrel till tired of each other... Idk even know why i still wish and want him to notice me, maybe with time i can let go but then at Times he just comeback and contact me like usual. That why i choose to annoy him now and then
     
  13. Razogul

    Razogul [Flag Raiser][Rald's and Carm's Senpai]

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    Oh boy. Firstly, man, this feels like one of my family members all over again. Anyway, stringing you along for ego and you're letting them do that. I'd say do a confrontation and see what the deal is.
     
  14. CoupDeFri

    CoupDeFri My shadow is my best friend.

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    The best way to harass ur crush is to tell him/her " i love you"
     
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    tedy2004 Well-Known Member

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    poor guy, the crushed guy...
     
  16. Ak0w

    Ak0w Well-Known Member

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    Well step one is to find out their schedule. And track down all their social media. Then just appear where they are
     
  17. 222222

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    Stuff his mailbox with love letters.

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  18. KizunaAi

    KizunaAi Cookie Lover ~ I love fuwa fuwa dolls ~

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    My advice is the same as other people
    Don't be a stalker

    It's quite scary when you keep doing that. If he doesn't like you, move on and find a new crush.
     
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  19. ludagad

    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    He's not into it. Best you can do is move along. Spend as long as you need crying and getting over him. There will be more crushes in the future, I guarantee it. And also, I assume you're young, so work on your looks starting now. Shallow as it is, that's how you attract the eye. Guys would even ignore a shitty personality if the girl's hot.
     
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  20. Myuu7

    Myuu7 Well-Known Member

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    I threw a coin pouch at the head of my crush when i was on 6th grade.. looking back at it now, im literally an asshole back then and I'm regretting every action i did lol
     
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