I like genius or super OP Female lead instead of emotionally weak or white lotus Female lead. Criteria: 1. Romance. 2. Chinese novel. 3. Super OP FL. 4. No harem 5. Military background (if possible) 6. Rebirth, Reincarnation or transmigration 7. Translated (a must) 8. Quick transmigration is also fine . I like novels similar to Rebirth of an idle noblewomen and Madam, your sockpuppet is lost again where the FL has many skills and is super OP .
https://www.novelupdates.com/series/the-rebirth-of-the-malicious-empress-of-military-lineage/ Fits everything but 8 and maybe 3. Not super OP as in strong and omnipotent but she's really smart when it comes to schemes.