Discussion What is flirting in your view?

What is flirting in your view?
got the idea from here : https://forum.novelupdates.com/threads/nuf-matchmaking.112993/
i read lots of a word "flirting" in the thread.
so tell me a few things.
1. what is flirting in your view?
2. are flirting and teasing different or they are same?
3. what is flirty boy? give me an example please (the behavior or the sign).
4. what is flirty girl? give me an example please (the behavior or the sign).

 

Flirting is when you talk dirty.

Example:
I haven't taken a bath for a few days now.

 

take this as biased opnion of someone desensitize to human relationships.
anything less than a mating call with nude display of genetalia isn't flirting, just people being nice or polite or manipulative or trying to convice you to donate to church of our lord and savior Niko, master of the depths and sniffer of sulphite

 

errr... idk.

 

i feel like i'm entering the wrong room and suddenly taking an exam

 

You missed the event. I was hoping to get atleast 1 son-in-law
As for my answers~
Flirting is really not my forte I think. I'll cringe after saying something sweet. I only flirt to tease people or annoy them

I am so messed up

 

Are you going through a existential crisis where you start to doubt what is what?

 

Pffft made me lol

I dunno I don't think I've ever been flirted with before. Maybe it's when they give you, you know. That look.

 

IMO, flirting is a thing for non-couple to give hints
For couple are snogging n shagging

 

Just another form of communication.

 

Lets fooling around a little bit

 

That's a highly subjective question.

Some guys think a smile given to them is flirting.

Some other dudes think a small shoulder touch is flirting.

And others could perceive an engaging conversation to be flirting.

It depends on the general mood of the conversation, verbal and physical cues, and topic. And what someone perceives to be flirting is subjective based on those points, IMO.

Flirting and teasing can be the perceived to be the same thing, but it also can be seen as very different

 

Flirting is when you make others uncomfortable with behaviour that approaches very close to the borders of your personal space

 

flirting is when you can show your closeness with the opposite gender, so if you close enough that you can tease each other it called flirting, but not all flirting can be called teasing.

 

One type of flirting is going often to dates with just the two of you and being interested in what the other likes/dislikes. Like if the other mentioned how they like something, and you end up showing up with such as a gift for them. Tho if the other person doesn't reciprocate in anyway after lots of time then you probably are just being used as a cash cow. To check this: stop doing random gifts, or gift some cheap presents when occasions arise and excuse it as you not being in a good monetary situation at the moment. Works both ways.
And also, you better ask on reddit, or check the already existing threads there.

Theoretically this is one type of flirting, but idk as I haven't had a relationship.

 

1. what is flirting in your view?
An attempt to get along with someone, well, more or less in a sense
2. are flirting and teasing different or they are same?
Different, teasing is meant for fun, not necessarily to attract someone, it can be a sign that the involved people do get along in a sense (as it can become bullying easily if the people doing it go too far)
3. what is flirty boy? give me an example please (the behavior or the sign).
Going somewhere (let us say a bar or gym for example) and someone approaches you and starts to show too much attention to you or tries to always talk to you (regardless if you respond or not, he is trying to flirt in this case), if he is an 'expert' (to not use another term ) there is a high chance that you will fall for his words and 'gestures' easily...
4. what is flirty girl? give me an example please (the behavior or the sign).
Same as above to be fair, although, in girls case things can be a bit more unexpected

 

I don't know. I have, on occasion, been told I was flirting when all I was doing was trying to have a conversation. its very subjective and is mostly up to the person on the receiving end.

 

1. what is flirting in your view?
Engaging someone you see as a potential partner. I don't do casual flirt irl. It's either I ignore you from the beginning or humor you and start from there.
2. are flirting and teasing different or they are same?
I tease a lot of ppl but it doesn't mean I flirt
3. what is flirty boy? give me an example please (the behavior or the sign).
Flirty boi sounds similar to fuccboi to me ah. We all know what that is. A person who connects with someone just for that kind of fun. Tbh, there ain't anything wrong with it as long as both parties know what they take from each other. Clear expectations is key but we ain't in an ideal world.

As for signs and behavior, please ask google-sama, ny dear niece. Your aunt steers away from these species.
4. what is flirty girl? give me an example please (the behavior or the sign).
Same as the above.

Too dirty '‿>'

You have to sit here and do it -_-

Yes, u are messed up. Kek my 2 daughters entered but I don't see a significant change to call someone son-in-law. Hmm I should egg them to get married.

*blinks* what look?
A. Smoldering gaze of passion
B. Casual twinkle of the eye
C. Look of absolute mere lust
D. Creep

 

Flirting is just an interview for snu snu